(not this website)
"You've whined multiple times to me about X over PMs"
*I wrote them a SINGLE PM that was a question*
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I had a question. I don't want any free art but your Q&A journal rules made me wonder.
Why do you not want to draw people with GID? Seems like a weird don't, especially if the art is SFW? "
That's the exact quote of the single PM I sent about it.[/spoili]
"You've commented multiple times about X and made me feel like an asshole"
*I commented ONE time with a question about the subject of the submission*
(Which, I should add, got 2 different people to bitch me out over PMs about how "stupid" that question was. I still don't think it was a dumb question, but I will admit it was probably dumb to ask publicly)
[spoili]I don't remember the exact words and don't feel like looking to see if he didn't delete it, but it was basically like "I thought [this subject] was on your 'wont draw' list?"
Which I will admit was pretty troll-y. So, my bad there.
After this though I never commented on another piece of his art.[/spoili]
"I hate how people whine and get easily offended over the internet!"
*Has made multiple posts whining about shit and getting easily offended*
I know people in real life who have hugely different political opinions from myself that are actually cool to get along with. Fuck me for thinking this guy seemed like he was like that online. But so far we're now 3 for 3 on hypocritical people who "hate how people get so offended" yet can't handle the fire, but this guy marks the first one to completely lie about our interactions, so,
ok I guess. =|
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I went out of my way to walk on eggshells around this guy in fact, I actually wanted to get to know him better because I thought he was really interesting. So, what a load of wasted effort. I was really hoping it wouldn't turn out to be the true hypocritical ass that he is. Anyway I unfollowed the guy after he said he totally hated my guts (news to me) so whatever.
But if you're interested in this the whole thing is under the spoiler and I'm the orange one.
And if I'm wrong then, Idk, I guess deconstruct the whole thing in my PM inbox because I'm tired of trying to befriend people and then being shunned for what appears (to me) to be no reason other than thin skin (of the same people who claim to have thick skin).
[spoili]TW (I guess?) Nazi stuff.
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I know we judge ourselves by our intent but fuck it, this is the vent thread and not a counseling thread:
I like being brash and not having to edit myself for the sake of other people's feelings.
Don't get me wrong,
I DO DO THAT, constantly. (And I appreciate the need for it!!) But I didn't grow up doing that so it is tiring for me.
So when I meet so-called "thick skinned" people who like to "tell it like it is" I inwardly go YES, someone I can talk to without having to carefully pick my words to control the hurt feefees!
And then it all comes crumbling down in short order because it turns out "thick skinned" people have easily hurt feefees too.
And, I don't know. Am I a hypocrite? I guess so. But whenever I encounter somebody I don't like for whatever reason, I block them and don't talk to them. I don't create journals lambasting them about how I don't like X. And for sure I've vented sometimes
when the subject came up about how much I hate X, but I've also never recalled making journals about how I'd never block someone for differences of opinions (and then proceeds to block people)?
In fact the only outright hypocritical thing I can recall at the moment is a post on Iwaku, where I said I don't like venting about irl stuff online because it makes my problems worse and I try not to do it.
Of course, like, a week after that post, I got addicted to doing
that exact thing and BOY OH BOY yeah I noticed and do I constantly regret ever posting that post (mostly because it makes me look bad). I'm moreso mad at myself for not being able to resist the urge to keep fucking doing it in the vent thread.
Soooo anyway.[/spoili]
UNRELATED
These fucking chickens, man.
Every time I think I've trained them to stay out of my fucking yard, THERE THEY ARE AGAIN, RUINING MY YARD!!!
I never thought they could make so much damage.
And what am I supposed to do about it?
I guess I need to go have a candid chat with my neighbor, about how his chickens are always in my fucking yard and not his, but I kinda feel like his response would be "your yard looks like shit, so who cares"
So I keep telling myself I'll only do that once my yard
doesn't look like shit but seriously this is ridiculous, THEY ARE
ALWAYS IN MY YARD.
And I never realized just how much
damage chickens can do. There's holes man. HOLES.