@Gen. Gwazi Senpai
Dude, you're projecting feelings onto Asmo that you only assume he has. You've been throwing around things like "he COULD be thinking negative after negative thought" without confirming this to be true. You don't know Asmo; you're not his friend, and you haven't been his close confidante (and I'm pretty sure you haven't read his diary, which I imagine he definitely has). Meanwhile, Tegan- his wife- and Diana- his good friend and coworker for years- think this is appropriate and will not hurt him.
It is POSSIBLE for friends- good friends, who know each other's boundaries- to tease each other and give each other a hard time in good fun. Boundaries differ from one person to the next. Just because YOU wouldn't enjoy it doesn't mean that other people wouldn't take it in stride.
But regardless, this is what is happening. Either donate or don't. Either quit, or stay. You have to do what you think is right. But you've said your piece, so learn when to forever hold your peace.
I have no counter-point/argument for this.
Good catch there, seriously. :P
I'll refrain from the "This could be cruel to him" issue I had with this from here on out.
Would it make everyone feel better if I shared Asmo's ban time along with him? O__O
... Excuse my derp. I miss-read this completely. >.<
I assumed you just meant "Publicly post the time Amso get's banned for".
If you mean being banned alongside him?
No, don't do it... :/
I disagree with the choice, but it'd be ridiculous to have Iwaku's most active and involved Admin get suspended from the site.
That wouldn't benefit anyone, it's only accomplishment would be to feed a false sense of justice to people.
Now that I've read this right though this time (hopefully) the offer is appreciated a lot more.
But seriously.
*Spritz Diana*
No! Bad Diana! No leaving Iwaku! :P
{Sigh} What I'm saying is this: It's a chance for him to remain on the site(after his time, of course) without having to deal with fallout from his previous actions, as this fundraiser provides the opportunity to do so.
(Note: I'm not trying to argue/debate this This is for the sake of civil discussion).
Temp-Bans would still accomplish this though. :/
Though not dealing with fallout is something up to the members who had issues with Asmo.
And honestly that's a person by person basis, some may not be satisfied with this.
Other's might not even be paying attention to this.