What are your fetishes / kinks ?

[Hellis]

I'm just confused how to Fetish's are a thing if sexual attraction isn't meant to be present in the first place.

IF you were to go a club, or a munch, you might understand from speaking to people. It isn't always the easiest to graps that its not all about sex.

Asexuality isn't horribly uncommon among the general community I move in. Fetishists can remove the whole "sexual aspect" of their play. Sensuality is different thing from the whole "I get a boner from you". YOu may enjoy the aestetics, the feel, the sense of power or simply relish in the bond you form between Dom and Sub (just examples). These things aren't really sex. Alot of BDSM in itself isn't sex in itself. You can certainly mix it with sex. But it isn't, mechanically speaking, sex.

Take Shibari. Me and others may consider it artform. For others, its a generally nude person in ropes looking pretty tied up and it must be sex. It doesn't have to be sex. And for an Asexual person, i wager it is not?

 

[lostfaith]

Oh, boy.

For context, I'm a homosexual female with some narrow attraction to men too (so sort of bi-curious I suppose? I'd like to try sex with a man some time in my life, but I couldn't see myself marrying one or entering a long term relationship in general with one).

As far as physical appearance and clothing, I like short skirts, glasses, knee-high leggings/socks, twintails, and outfits that display the midriff, on women. On men and women, I like slacks, waistcoats, suit jackets, etc, especially on women. On women, I adore freckles, red hair, and elaborate tattoos (preferably on arms and legs; you know those fancy ones that cover the entire limb). I'm attracted to older men, especially with "salt and pepper" hair. The best example (and also easily the most attractive man I've ever seen), is Jim Caviezel.

As far as fetishes go, I'm a sadomasochist, but I prefer to be a sub. I could see myself in a dom role, however. I'm not a big fan of extreme BDSM, but there's some stuff I'll do. My biggest "nope" is drowning (or most things to do with water), whereas sensory deprivation is one of my favorite aspects. As opposed to simply handcuffs or basic bondage, I like incredibly elaborate rope ties that are truly artwork, especially suspension bondage. I really want to try something with hot wax, too. I enjoy slave and master scenes, but not anything like pet play. As far as general pain stuff like whips, I'm pretty much a fan of it all.

My only other major realistic fetish is navels. Just, mmm. Only on women, though.

And in fiction, I have one major one: Cybernetics! (And when they become a real thing this will definitely be a thing I want to try.) Characters with cybernetic limbs, cybereyes, anything like that, automatically turn me on. When I first played BL2, I picked Gaige just because she had a mechanical arm (she remains one of my favorite characters in gaming). Adam Jensen from Deus Ex: HR is a bit too young for me, but in twenty years when his hair starts graying? Yeah I'll take it.

I also may or may not really enjoy tentacles.

 

[Laivindur]

Alright, here goes...I like...My fetishes are: 1. Clothes...Hahah, I just realized how funny that sounded as an answer to this. I mean half naked, or certain kinds of clothes.
2. Long hair. 3. Self confidence.

Kinks...hmm...Handcuffs. D/S...?

Probably a bit more, but- for later.


You happy now, @dragonesper ?! xD

 

[Hatsune Candy]

Okay, well, I have probably on of the more bizarre fetishes out there, certainly more so than any of the ones mentioned in this thread. That is, I have a quicksand fetish. Admittedly I'm a little bit embarrassed by it, but it's a part of who I am so I might as well embrace it. I've had an interest in quicksand for as long as I can remember, but it wasn't always a fetish it just happened to grow into one. And, um, yeah....

 

[dragonesper]

Of course you tag me for nagging at you to post in here :p

 

[Gwazi Magnum]

IF you were to go a club, or a munch, you might understand from speaking to people. It isn't always the easiest to graps that its not all about sex.

Asexuality isn't horribly uncommon among the general community I move in. Fetishists can remove the whole "sexual aspect" of their play. Sensuality is different thing from the whole "I get a boner from you". YOu may enjoy the aestetics, the feel, the sense of power or simply relish in the bond you form between Dom and Sub (just examples). These things aren't really sex. Alot of BDSM in itself isn't sex in itself. You can certainly mix it with sex. But it isn't, mechanically speaking, sex.

Take Shibari. Me and others may consider it artform. For others, its a generally nude person in ropes looking pretty tied up and it must be sex. It doesn't have to be sex. And for an Asexual person, i wager it is not?

So it's a liking for the aesthetic, feel and artistic ability of the fetish's that they have?
But stuff like "I want to bone you" stays out of the picture?

Just confirming so I don't wander off with the wrong interpretation.

If so, that makes sense.
Didn't really dawn on me that fetishes could be more than just sexual.

 

[Windsong]

Fine. I'm tired of feeling left out. >:(

So gonna regret this.

Spoiler

Futa, flaccid cocks, big women, fat asses, big tits, pegging, bukakke, furry, tails, ears, elves, bad dragon toys, exploring sexuality, cumplay, group sex, threesome, foursome, etc, straight shota, milfs, some gilfs, mature women/men, public sex, pool sex, outdoor sex, exhibitionism, normal chores while nude, food, NTR (giving, would kill if received), girls smoking pot, tipsy girls, body shots, short stacks (dat dwarf suicide girl hnmmgggh), creature sex (lamia, harpy, etc), zero gravity sex..

That's just the first layer of folders..

 

[Gonzo]

Okay, here goes:

So, I'm very into BDSM, both sexually and non sexually.

I am a Dominant, or at least, I consider myself to be one. My last girlfriend was also my (technically) second submissive, and being a Hell of a lot more experienced than me, said I was an "incredible dominant." (<-- Not bragging. Please don't think that). People on the tumblr community that know me also say the same. so I guess that gives me some credibility. Why I'm having to argue my credibility, I have no idea.

Anyway, stuff that is under the BDSM umbrella that I am into:

Kind of a Big List

• CONSENT
• Dd/lg or Cg/l (Daddy Dom/little girl or Caregiver/little respectively)
  • This does NOT mean I am into child porn/ have pedophilic thoughts and wants. If you need clarification, I'll be happy to clarify.
• Bondange/Loss of movement in general I suppose.
  • Ropes
  • St. Andrew's Cross
  • Etc.
• Power Exchange
• I'm also a sadist so:
  • Caning
  • Flogging
  • Whips
  • Belts
  • Spanking
  • Clothespins on different body parts.
  • Clamps
  • Etc.
    • Side note: When I say that stuff, I kinda mean extreme because yeah... sadist.
• Wax play (I'm the one pouring the wax on her)
• Loss of senses (she's the one losing the senses)
  • Blindfolds
  • Earbuds with the music up/Earplugs
  • Oven mitts and things of that nature that stop her from feeling around properly.
• Bimbofication (her, obviously)
• Gags (on her)... I realize that this can go under loss of senses, but oh well.
  • Ball
  • Spider
  • Bit/Bridle
  • Butterfly (I've never seen this one in use, but it looks interesting)
  • Cleave gags
  • Forniphilic
  • Harness
  • Rope
  • Etc.
• Humiliation (to a degree)
• Degradation (to a degree)
• Pet Play
• Plugs (for her)
  • (Jeweled/Princess ones are ones I really like)
• Hair pulling
• Biting
• Being in control

Yeah. There's more, but that's all I can think of at the current moment.

Other

This stuff I guess I'll add onto if I ever feel like it.

• Kind of the whole school girl thing
  • Knee-high white socks
  • Pigtails
  • Short, plaid skirt
  • Glasses (not really a must, but I like them)
  • Shiny black shoes/heels
  • Tight white button up
• Neck Kisses (either on her or on me)
• Glasses (I know that was mentioned already, but I want it to have a separate bullet, anyway)
• Other stuff (to be edited... maybe)

 

[Drakel]

When it comes to online, I think it's easier to state the top five on what are NOT my fetish instead.

1) Scat
2) Vomit
3) Pedophilia
4) Torture
5) Guro

In RL I'm a major fan of BDSM and Vanilla (Gay and Straight). Fapping under beds raping cars and the occasional watermelon.

 

[smdzTheCakeGodL]

Welp, here it goes......
I have some normal smaller fetishes (glasses, brunettes, tomboys, and more that I can't think of right now xD)
I also have at least one (could be more than one, MUAHAHAHHAHAHA *uses smoke bomb to disappear*) unusual fetish, but I'm not stating the name(s) nor fetish(es) cuz obvious reasons xD

 

[dragonesper]

@Gen. Gwazi Magnum PI yeah, pretty much that. That is in essence a really good summary

 

[FireEater]

I have been raised as a good Christian. Sex talk was a taboo in our house. When I left my home, I found a whole new world:

1. Toys. I love using toys on my girls.
2. Light bondage.
3. I prefer half dress than fully naked sex. Is more....erotic.
4. Voyeurism. I love been watched.
5. Talking dirty.

I don't know if they are fetishes, I think is stuff any couples are doing in nowadays. :)

 

[Lady B]

Socialism.

 

[Hellis]

Fine. I'm tired of feeling left out. >:(

So gonna regret this.

Spoiler

Futa, flaccid cocks, big women, fat asses, big tits, pegging, bukakke, furry, tails, ears, elves, bad dragon toys, exploring sexuality, cumplay, group sex, threesome, foursome, etc, straight shota, milfs, some gilfs, mature women/men, public sex, pool sex, outdoor sex, exhibitionism, normal chores while nude, food, NTR (giving, would kill if received), girls smoking pot, tipsy girls, body shots, short stacks (dat dwarf suicide girl hnmmgggh), creature sex (lamia, harpy, etc), zero gravity sex..

That's just the first layer of folders..

I ser very standard stuff here. Nothing to shocking xD.

Everyone is always concerned they are the worse.

 

[Freyja]

Fine. I'm tired of feeling left out. >:(

So gonna regret this.

Spoiler

Futa, flaccid cocks, big women, fat asses, big tits, pegging, bukakke, furry, tails, ears, elves, bad dragon toys, exploring sexuality, cumplay, group sex, threesome, foursome, etc, straight shota, milfs, some gilfs, mature women/men, public sex, pool sex, outdoor sex, exhibitionism, normal chores while nude, food, NTR (giving, would kill if received), girls smoking pot, tipsy girls, body shots, short stacks (dat dwarf suicide girl hnmmgggh), creature sex (lamia, harpy, etc), zero gravity sex..

That's just the first layer of folders..

This concerns me.
Who doesn't like outdoor sex, normal chores while nude, food, exploring sexuality or curvy ladies?!

 

[Isho13]

I'm not going to list all the things I'm into, it would feel too personal xD But I love men in suits, and I find it sad how nobody wants to have sex wearing a suit because it gets too hot :( Maybe outdoor sex in winter, wearing a suit? xD

 

[Faithviper]

Ummm....I have a wrestling kink and some kinks that would go with that.

 

[GhostJoker]

^ I bet this chick gets piledrived in bed.

 

[Hydronine]

Petplay. I'm really into pet play, the act of collaring, BDSM, (*Has quite a few things under BDSM checked off, no suspension play yet BUT WHEN WE GET A HOUSE, YOU BET YOUR ASSES I AM SEEING IF I CAN MAKE SOME HOME IMPROVEMENTS*), anal, orgasm denial, D/s. A few other normal-ish kinks as well (Suits, sex outdoors, vouyerism (Thank you roommate/friend) , Exibitionism (Wonder if anyone remembers that from five or six years ago? Hehe) Short dresses, school girl, nurses, leather, latex, PVC)

I also live with a friend who's into DD/lg, hell, you might have seen her on Tumblr: Princesslovesherdaddy

So by default, I sometimes get into her shit with her so that she's not alone. Which means I have a few sippy cups. (They are fox-related, don't judge me.) This also means I sometimes help her out when Daddy's not around. Ain't my thing but I respect it, it's similiar to petplay, just I'm stuck in the dominating position. Fills the switch in me anyways.

 

[LVL1337N00B]

I like sexual intercourse. Sry if too graphic.