It's usually "discovered" through something that forces a person to come to terms with themselves. You can think of it like a manifestation of your true, inner self. Sorry, I know it's kind of a bad explanation. >..>
Is the timeskip for everywhere? And if so how much time is being skipped?
I've been talking with @Lady Amatsu and I'm still trying to figure out the best way to have Reyn interact with Seri that's not just barging in when she has company >_<
You, RIO, will be plenty good wherever you are when night comes xD
At an inn, tavern, wandering around the streets- even if you're not in a town or city.