Now, this doesn't have to do with the act of role-playing, but about the search for a partner.
I find it extremely frustrating when people seem not to be able to read. When you specify something very clearly and they seem to either not have bothered to read it or just didn't care enough to heed it, it says to me 'I don't actually care' and frankly that does not endear you to me. If you really want to role-play with someone, disrespecting something they've clearly mentioned is important to them is not the way to go about it.
Seriously.