Never rely on internet strangers to do their part, or even be courteous in not doing so. It feels nice to be patient and courteous, but in these games bad behavior is so common that the actual courteous thing is to ignore whatever slows the game down too much and to keep moving forward
... :I And I did start to worry that things might get held up if I waited too long. I've done my fair share of GMing, too, so I understand the importance of moving forward instead of waiting indefinitely. Part of the reason why I hadn't gone ahead and posted sooner is because I've kind of been super-busy, myself,
anyway -- so my thought process was kind of like, "yeah, I'm waiting on Nick, and I've been left waiting a long time, but, I'm also swamped in homework right now, so it's not like I'm sitting around super bored or anything. I have other stuff I can (and should) be doing in the meantime." Anytime I considered posting for this thread, I decided that, given how I was still waiting for two other players (technically only one now that Dipper's gone, but still), it really didn't need to be very high on my priority list. Meanwhile, all my homework, and several other RP's, ranked a bit higher on that list... so my limited time and energy went there instead of here.
I also thought that, if the GM wanted me to go ahead and post without Nick, or if he was at all bothered by how slow that group was moving, then he would say something to me and let me know that I should be posting instead of waiting. I didn't expect that the cut-off for IC posting before the next story-advancing post would come at me so suddenly, without giving me any time to actually do any more IC posting before it happens. I thought that, if I was told to just go ahead and post without Nick, then I would have a window of opportunity to actually... do that.
BUT, that was my fault for assuming the GM would do things a certain way instead of just asking what he'd prefer that I do. I'm not trying to blame Wanderer for all this. I shouldn't have assumed that no word on my group's status from Wanderer meant "yeah, I don't care that you're moving slowly, you can keep on waiting."
In any case -- because of my actions, our group was stalled for weeks and
neither of us were able to do much of any RPing there. And now that I've finally gotten the message to move on, it's still too late to do anything with that particular interaction... and I'm just a little bit upset at myself for this, because, if I knew that I should've moved on a lot sooner, then I would've been able to get in that response to your character that I was looking forward to. Also, I feel guilty about denying
you the chance to use your character for so long, so... sorry about that.
In a general sense, though, I
do understand why it isn't a good thing to wait for people forever. I just regret not posting back when I actually would've had time to post.