Sexuality and Porn!

[Koschei]

So something like Hetero-Gray A or Homo-Gray A would be a thing then?

Yeah, pretty much. There are specific words for other ace orientations that include ace spectrum and sexuality in one. I, for example, am homoromantic since I'm asexual but romantically attracted to men and men alone. But some people say they're grey homosexual or grey pansexual, but it's a matter of preference, really.

Like I said, AVEN is a goldmine if you want to read further stuff about asexuality and such. It also has an aromantic counterpart, but I don't have the link at the moment.

 

[Esmeray]

I should clarify in advance, none of this is meant to come off as hostile.
My main method of learning/understanding things is by questioning stuff that either confuses me or doesn't make sense to me.

From that perspective though I have no issues with having sex with a male from a moral perspective either.
But I'm Heterosexual because I have no sexual attraction, will or intention to having sex with a man. But I still don't see the act bad morally.
Nor would I see myself as immoral if I took part in it for whatever reason.

Does that mean you could become sexually attracted to both sexes?
Or do you mean you simply don't care who you do with physical act with, may there be attraction or not?


So something like Hetero-Gray A or Homo-Gray A would be a thing then?

I guess using the word morally wasn't the proper thing to say, but it was the only way I could express it. Its not just moral, its a personal way of how I handle it. I personally hate choosing favorites, sides, ect. So to me sexuality is the same way, I don't have a preference, I'll be fine with either. Which makes me a Pansexual on a mental and emotional perspective. On a physical perspective though, I am Gray-A. My body rarely reacts to anything. I have had instances though were I have been aroused for a brief moment by different genders.

So I guess it is like how you said, Hetero-gray A, Homo Gray - A, Pan Gray - A. Typically though I find that those under the Ace Umbrella are special cases and either don't have any specifics or preferences, or just don't want sex at all.

 

[Gwazi Magnum]

I guess using the word morally wasn't the proper thing to say, but it was the only way I could express it. Its not just moral, its a personal way of how I handle it. I personally hate choosing favorites, sides, ect. So to me sexuality is the same way, I don't have a preference, I'll be fine with either. Which makes me a Pansexual on a mental and emotional perspective. On a physical perspective though, I am Gray-A. My body rarely reacts to anything. I have had instances though were I have been aroused for a brief moment by different genders.

So I guess it is like how you said, Hetero-gray A, Homo Gray - A, Pan Gray - A. Typically though I find that those under the Ace Umbrella are special cases and either don't have any specifics or preferences, or just don't want sex at all.

(It should be noted, the crossed out words was my original thought/response, but mid-typing I considered another factor etc.
But I decided instead of deleting it to simply cross it out. Thinking that maybe seeing my thought process might help clarify confusion that I may have).

So taking a guess here, would Panromantic Gray-A be an accurate way of describing it?

Panromantic addressing your attraction to both in a mental/emotional level, and the A-Gray addressing your rate of sexual attraction?

Though that term I just said still doesn't address my original point of sexual attraction to specific sex.
Which would kind of make it Panromantic, Pansexual Gray-A. But Panromantic is pointless if there's Pansexual.

Ok, I *think* I got it now.
You're essentially Pan Gray-A?

 

[Esmeray]

(It should be noted, the crossed out words was my original thought/response, but mid-typing I considered another factor etc.
But I decided instead of deleting it to simply cross it out. Thinking that maybe seeing my thought process might help clarify confusion that I may have).

So taking a guess here, would Panromantic Gray-A be an accurate way of describing it?

Panromantic addressing your attraction to both in a mental/emotional level, and the A-Gray addressing your rate of sexual attraction?

Though that term I just said still doesn't address my original point of sexual attraction to specific sex.
Which would kind of make it Panromantic, Pansexual Gray-A. But Panromantic is pointless if there's Pansexual.

Ok, I *think* I got it now.
You're essentially Pan Gray-A?

Essentially, yes I am. See this is the reason why the kelsi test doesnt work for me! xD

 

[Gwazi Magnum]

Essentially, yes I am. See this is the reason why the kelsi test doesnt work for me! xD

Totally, that was way to brief.

Made me google for another one, and found this.

Granted, it's not much bigger. But it at least as more variance in some of the answers.
Though I find it odd that a quiz about your orientation has you fill in your orientation in advance. :/

 

[Hana]

I don't like porn in video form. >.> I prefer to read erotica, srsly though nothing that would become purple prose.

... Well, I like het, slash and femslash in manga form when it's done well. And I'm more drawn to females when it comes to media, but eh... I'm still in the age where I can explore what I like... Meaning I'm not really sure what yet. Vanilla het isn't so bad, I like yaoi, and lesbian sex could be nice.

All in all I think I'm still figuring it out. I've already just realized for myself that I'm really bi and not just bi-curious around more than a year ago. Girls smell so nice and are pretty soft and gentle, but I'm attracted to strong and usually tall women... I'll just stop talking now...

 

[Seth Bloodmoon]

I'm totally a lesbian trapped in a man's body judging by my tastes in porn.

Also... -cough-tentaclesneedlovingtoo!-cough-

 

[Hellis]

http://gyazo.com/43ab4c50122d6fdc66309e59883055d1 oh hey. Accurate.

 

[dragonesper]

Yes, the linked test was inaccurately written, though it nailed mine correctly: asexual.

As for porn... If yaoi counts then yes, I do read that occasionally. I'm not above watching porn for entertainment value as well. Reading sexual material isn't a bad thing to do even if you're not sexually attracted to someone's body and looks. In the end, your partner is more than a face.

 

[Flame]

I am the most horridly awful perverted person. (Probably exaggerating.) I like things I'd be super embarassed to tell anybody, and I already have. Maybe I enjoy the embarassment? Hue hue hue, I'm gonna make a folder on my computer called CP, and fill it with images of cheese pizza for laughs if anybody looks at the stuff on my computer. Anyhoot, I'm probably actually not all that terrible. I'm pretty innocent, and small things get me embarassed when with other people.

I feel super straight, but I know a hot guy when I see one, and I sometimes wonder what being a girl is like, but I'd never do that.

 

[Esthalia]

I think the reason people tend to watch more women in porn is because of the way they act or interact with eachother. There is something much better about two women (or more) together than a man and a woman. This is probably because of the amount of forced chemisty there is with heterosexual porn and the cheeziness of it all in general. I like watching woman instead of mXw usually, and that's kind of rare considering I usually just pull from past experiences whenever I feel the need to do the deed :P

Knowing myself, I could easily be in a relationship with anyone, personality and fondness always win out.

I love all bodies, but the personality is really what gets me. If they look bored on screen, then their not attractive to me and thus not turning me on enough to be remotely interested in them (even if their figures are amazing). Whenever people say that penises are not attractive or that they don't like looking at them, I have a hard time understanding, because honestly, I think they are pretty rad. (don't get me wrong, there are some that are not so nice, but the same goes for labias and breasts). It's all in the eye of the beholder.

 

[Sway]

I might be asexual, actually. I'm seldom sexually attracted to anyone and rarely crave sex. When I do get in the mood, just experiencing and touching myself is enough to make things happen. I'm into fitness and work out a lot, so that helps. It's quite surreal, actually, like it's not your own body anymore.

As for porn... most of it is extremely bland and boring. If I do watch something, it's always the kinky shit. However, I would never do any of that in real life or write about it, so it doesn't quite align with my sexuality.

 

[Hellis]

.It should be mentioned as someone very deeply into the Lifestyle, alot my porn contains the... shinier stuff.

 

[Drakel]

I identify as Bisexual.

If what classified me is porn... what would the sexual orientation of "fucking only my hands and inanimate objects, especially cars" would be?

 

[Gwazi Magnum]

So, since this thread seems to have already made itself to be a place to discuss/clarify sexuality I'm assuming the same applies to Gender Identities?
Because I have a question in regards to that too, but I don't think it's something I need to be making a new thread over.

(Tagging @Vio and @Koschei because they helped clear my confusion last time).

Basically I've heard of and looked into the term "Demi-Guy", and oddly even the LGBT focused wikis seem to have limited information about it.
Not sure if my google skills are lacking or there really is limited info on it. But from what I managed to find it basically looks like the person Identifies as a man, but not fully?

If that is correct, what exactly does that entail/suggest? Does that go into the "I kinda don't feel this body is right" sort of idea, or is it more of a "I don't relate/associate to a bunch of the expectations/behaviours placed upon males?" sort of deal?

Reason I'm asking is because at a glance, this looks like it's actually a bit more accurate to what I feel (assuming it's the later) than simply going "Male".
However, I really hate the idea of someone simply looking something up briefly and then self-diagnosing/throwing it around at everyone.
So I'd rather have an accurate idea of what it means/entails beforehand.

 

[Koschei]

So, since this thread seems to have already made itself to be a place to discuss/clarify sexuality I'm assuming the same applies to Gender Identities?
Because I have a question in regards to that too, but I don't think it's something I need to be making a new thread over.

(Tagging @Vio and @Koschei because they helped clear my confusion last time).

Basically I've heard of and looked into the term "Demi-Guy", and oddly even the LGBT focused wikis seem to have limited information about it.
Not sure if my google skills are lacking or there really is limited info on it. But from what I managed to find it basically looks like the person Identifies as a man, but not fully?

If that is correct, what exactly does that entail/suggest? Does that go into the "I kinda don't feel this body is right" sort of idea, or is it more of a "I don't relate/associate to a bunch of the expectations/behaviours placed upon males?" sort of deal?

Reason I'm asking is because at a glance, this looks like it's actually a bit more accurate to what I feel (assuming it's the later) than simply going "Male".
However, I really hate the idea of someone simply looking something up briefly and then self-diagnosing/throwing it around at everyone.
So I'd rather have an accurate idea of what it means/entails beforehand.

Well, I haven't dug too deep in the more complex parts of the nonbinary community, but you've got the right idea.

It varies depending on who you ask. Some experience dysphoria, like a trans person, while others are perfectly comfortable in their bodies. The general consensus seems to be that they don't identify as entirely male/female/other because they feel that the expectations of gender, put on them by society, doesn't fit. So, essentially the latter.

If you want to be absolutely sure, or just want to know more, try to get a foot in the community. I'm out of convenient links this time around, but the best way to see if something is right for you, is to get to know the community, learn about it, and then think about how you feel about the subject. If it feels right to identify as a demiboy or a demigirl, and you understand what it means/entails, go for it.

But the best way is definitely to talk to members of the community. They've got resources and can provide more material for reading, etc.

If you have other ponderings about LGBT stuff, feel free to PM me, I'll gladly answer questions and talk about it. :3

 

[Dervish]

How in the hell didn't this get posted yet?

 

[Gwazi Magnum]

Well, I haven't dug too deep in the more complex parts of the nonbinary community, but you've got the right idea.

It varies depending on who you ask. Some experience dysphoria, like a trans person, while others are perfectly comfortable in their bodies. The general consensus seems to be that they don't identify as entirely male/female/other because they feel that the expectations of gender, put on them by society, doesn't fit. So, essentially the latter.

Well, glad to hear I wasn't far off then. :)

If you want to be absolutely sure, or just want to know more, try to get a foot in the community. I'm out of convenient links this time around, but the best way to see if something is right for you, is to get to know the community, learn about it, and then think about how you feel about the subject. If it feels right to identify as a demiboy or a demigirl, and you understand what it means/entails, go for it.

But the best way is definitely to talk to members of the community. They've got resources and can provide more material for reading, etc.

That's a pretty good idea.
I'll see if I can find such a community and get some more answers/clarification there.

If you have other ponderings about LGBT stuff, feel free to PM me, I'll gladly answer questions and talk about it. :3

Will do, thanks for the help. :3

 

[Torsty]

I fantasize about asexual couples gettin' it on.

 

[Faithviper]

I love me some man on man action...just saying lol