Sexuality and Porn!

Discussion in 'THREAD ARCHIVES' started by Diana, May 18, 2015.

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  1. Before I ask my questions I want to remind people that this is a public space, so don't go getting graphic or creepy. D:< I also want to remind adults that there's no KIDS on this forum and average teenagers love smut and porn, and if you dun realize that you're delusional. Just don't be creepy weirdos.


    NOW FOR THE DISCUSSION AND QUESTION!


    I just finished reading one of my smutty novels last night and somehow I went down my thought trait about smut and porn and sexuality. I dunno how it got there, it just DID!

    I realized, I am a very straight woman. I just prefer masculine men as my bootymeat and romances. This is reflected in my roleplays and my interests in smutty books. BUT when it comes to visual porn, I like women. o____o Lotsa woman! No mens! So pictures, gifs, movies, I am all about the girls.

    I know that I wouldn't have a problem having a relationship or hot sexytimes with a woman, but I have maybe met TWO in my whole life that had personalities that I found attractive enough for that. >> But I thought it was really interesting (weird!) that all my written smut is purely heterosexual, but my visual porn is all about the babes.

    So now I am curious how it works for other people!

    How is your sexuality expressed through your choices in porn? Does it match up with your orientation or do you have a sliding scale?
     
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  2. My choice in porn tells me that I should probably see a psychiatrist.
     
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  3. It depends on my mood, I think. I'm quite fluid with my sexuality, so I find most types of porn enjoyable, except abusive porn
    . If I'm feeling a bit more sensual and gentle I'll watch lesbian porn, if I'm feeling casual I'll watch vanilla straight porn, and if I'm feeling feisty I'll watch gay (man on man, two built and muscular men to be precise) porn.

    I think you should at least try watching a lot of different porn, no matter how set you think you are in your sexuality. It's easy to just go for whatever's on the front page of your fave site, but looking around a bit, exploring what actually feels right and what doesn't, is very helpful in maintaining a healthy sexual relationship with yourself, and gives you further confidence in your sexual identity.
     
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  4. Hah.

    Haha.

    Discussing my porn tastes?

    Haha.

    No. Please. I can't. Not in public.

    I like it all. Ladies, men, lady-men. It's whatever.

    Besides, I close all my tabs when done.
     
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    Oh Lord why you do this to us Princess Diana? :( When I do watch porn (which is rarely honestly. Yeah I'm a bit of a prude), it's usually either straight or lesbian. Sometimes I'll go wild and watch threesomes and some other crazy stuff. I'm honestly a tad picky when it comes to porn. As for my sexuality, I am bona fide straight but I guess I wouldn't mind experimenting with women a bit. Honestly most women piss me off with how fucking stupid they can be.
     
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  6. I AM HERE TO STATE MY OPINION

    You're no fun, Diana!

    *leaves thread*
     
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  7. I'd say my porn taste matches my sexual taste perfectly. I watch what I'm in to, although sometimes a bit more extreme.
    Honestly I think many people watch porn they are able to relate to, else it's hard to masturbate too, although the same counts for the extreme thing. I can't get interested by two people doing missionary, nobody does, that's why porn is so over the top fake.
     
  8. I'm actually a lot like Diana. o.O I'm not attracted to women relationship wise, but I prefer watching women over men. I don't know....something about men in porn just makes the whole thing laughable. There is nothing slightly arousing about a penis' appearance at all, and most guys in porn tend to look, well bored.

    However, when it comes to roleplays, books, and anything written I always prefer heterosexual couples, and for relationships I will only be with a man. Maybe I'm weird, but something about most female personalities irks me.
     
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  9. Sexuality is always an interesting topic to discuss and ponder.

    Personally, speaking as a mildly sex repulsed asexual with literally no sexual feelings at all, I don't watch porn other than on very rare occasions. And they're extremely far between. And speaking as a gay man, I've only ever watched gay porn, though before realizing I was straight as a slinkie, I did watch straight and lesbian porn out of curiosity. And peer pressure.

    It's gonna sound rough, but women in porn interest me about as much as a piece of gum on a sidewalk somewhere in Prague. Sorry, but that's the truth. Even before I realized, they never caught my attention like the men did. I can appreciate the aesthetics and such, but only for so long. I'd grow bored very quickly if there was a woman involved. This also includes trans women since they are exactly that, women. Lesbian porn isn't even worth bringing up, because I have absolutely zero interest in it.

    Gay porn on the other hand, it has a different kind of air to it. It might also be because I find men pleasing to look at, but the general feeling of two men getting it on is different. Can't really explain it without digging into gender and social bullshit, but yeah, it's got something to do with that, me thinks.

    And I'm gonna leave it at that. This shit is hard to explain when your brain ain't wired to understand it on an emotional level.
     
  10. No offence meant, but that just sounds like you've been watching bad porn. I'd recommend watching some more amateur porn, since they tend to have more human expressions and movements, and mostly genuine passion for what they're doing.
     
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  11. My porn choices match up perfectly with my sexual orientation. I'm exclusively heterosexual (by the way, the Kinsey Scale is kinda neat, worth taking the linked test just to see if you fall where you think you should on the scale of heterosexual to homosexual), and that's reflected in all my porn and smut adventures.

    For visual things my main preference is actually toward solo female things, because that's what I'm all about. I also go for some hetero sex videos, both one on one and group things, but that's kinda second choice for me. I don't really care for lesbian visual stuff most of the time though.

    For text things that kinda swaps around. Hetero pairs are the usual, group and lesbian things come next, and then solo female at the end. This is because solo female smut tends to be really poorly written and even more repetitive than other smut, so I just stopped bothering with it a while ago.

    So yeah, my porn interests lie solely on females. I have watched all sorts of other things over the years, and none of it really appealed to me.
     
  12. I'm huge fan of Kandie Kaos and her.....work...

    Kids, don't google it.
     
  13. When my pornographic content features something as mundane as a meagre pair of humanoids, it tends to be either of heterosexual or lesbian leaning, which is reflective of my sexuality. Other than that, I haven't a clue what sexuality one would be categorized as for when it involves non-humanoids.

    Because, hey, if you're going to watch porn, you may as well shoot straight for the stars and hit the weirdest, most unimaginably weird stuff you can find which excites you. I have an imagination--and bars--for the two-way tango. :ferret:

    Anyway, may as well try the Kinsey Scale test Jorick linked. It should be fun to see what it thinks.

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    ... As expected.
     
  14. It's a really interesting question, actually. A few months back my friends and I were watching the unrated version of some movie I can't remember and one of them was wondering if we would actually see a penis in a movie! Scandalous... There were none but there were topless women EVERYWHERE. We then had a whole discussion about why there are more naked women then men in movies and we agreed that women generally have more beautiful bodies and that's why they are shown off more in the movies. :) A fact that I completely agree with.

    I identify as straight but if I found the right woman I would be with her in a heartbeat. I much prefer watching females over males in the small bit of porn I have watched. I prefer reading it over watching it and if I do watch it it's muted. Something about the sounds makes me laugh... I know, I'm odd.

    There is just something about a big strong man that's... Yum. All I have to say on that subject. :)

    I think it's nice that there is usually something for everyone when it comes to porn!

    I feel like this gif works well here from what I have read so please enjoy.

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  15. Being a pansexual person, any porn I watch fits to my sexuality.

    Which is neat. It all depends on my mood~

    I just love it all.
     
  16. my porn selection suggests i want a guy x girl x girl threesome

    this is quite silly

    i want a guy x girl x girl xgirl foursome!
     
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  17. Lesbians are hawt.

    I also tend to prefer bigger women, which is ironic since I don't lean that way at all in real life (sorry, but if I workout every other day I don't think it's crazy to want a partner who also pays some attention to her body).
     
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  18. hmmm taking that silly little test was fun. Eh I usually either watch straight or girl on girl.....though to be fair....half the time I'd rather read it because half the girls have the UGLIEST faces.

    Also, here's the results. Only slightly surprised as I've yet to find anyone I say "Oh I wanna bang him"....so yeah.

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  19. I'm a gay boy and I cant handle porn with women in it at all, I'm just so unattracted to female bodies that I lose all arousal xD; So my orientation and my porn choice match up perfectly. I'm attracted to more feminine guys, I'm not into bears at all. Cute lil twinks for me, plz.


    What's difficult to understand though is that I'm asexual as far as actually doing sexual things, but I'll wank to porn to my heart's content. w/e, it works for me xP


    My brother is straight, but he says that the guy has to be at least somewhat attractive ("and he cant have a weird dick, ew") for him to get into (straight) porn.
     
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  20. My porn is the united nations of depravity. Ok? OK.
     
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