Now that that's out in the open. I needa talk to Iwaku's baby boolettes, considering we got an age limit set at 13.
This fool we're talking about in this thread and the related PSA thread Diana put up (and locked) is absofuckinglutely nothing new to the world since the beginning of human history. I'm as old as Diana and if Diana's the mother of Iwaku, then I'm Iwaku's estranged older sister carving bad words into the school wall behind the bleachers.
Don't
ever in your life feel like you have to "hear them out" or be compassionate towards people like this.
EV. VER. People like this fool are not in any way, shape, metashape or transdimensional form concerned about how you feel. At all. AT ALL. It is all about them and in this case, about getting their dick stroked. And if you've ever had trouble believing the saying that people will do anything to get what they want, then, bzzt womp womp ringa ding dong because this is a prime-ass example of that mentality. Now to avoid walls of text, lemme show you how I mean by breaking down W's chatlog with this cockbruise.
[5:57:18 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: hey
[5:57:31 PM] Kelly: elloo
[6:00:22 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: ws wong right
Now, see this is the first thing your young ears and eyes gotta listen and watch out for. These cordial-seeming motherfuckers. This ain't to say never trust nice people, the instinct to recognize glib politeness is something you'll have hone and polish on your own. But this point is important to make because this is where a lot of people show their ass to be status quo-upholding, apologist fuckbirds. Many, many, maaany people love to point to shit like this and use it to minimize the fucked up behavior of the person in question. Which brings me to my next point: Nice to you does not fucking mean that person is nice. If someone is nice to you and speaks to you sweetly but is yelling and berating the waiter, someone who accidentally bumps into them or talks disparagingly about someone else to either you or while you're present does-not-mean-they-are-nice. This mentality is also what contributes to domestic violence situations. Motherfuckers will be like, "Oh but he's been nothing by polite and sweet to me! (What did you do to provoke an otherwise sweet person?)"
Don't ever, never, evereverever fucking stand for that shit. EVVVVER. And fucking ditch anyone who even smells like they abide this level of fuckery.
[6:01:04 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: your cute
[6:01:08 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: .. got a cam
Usually folk will be like, "Why can't we all just say what we meeean?!" Refer back to honing your own bullshit detector and also keep in mind how this demonstrates that this motherfucker is OUT to go get his dick happy so fuck what you're doing.
[6:24:37 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: how old are ypu
[6:24:44 PM] Kelly: 18 < _ <
[6:24:52 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: ok cool
[6:25:05 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: somthing wrong
[6:25:14 PM] Kelly: nah... just tv
[6:25:31 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: can i ask somthing
[6:25:36 PM] Kelly: sure
[6:25:48 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: did you ever mature rp
[6:26:00 PM] Kelly: yea
[6:26:14 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: ever got wet from it ?
[6:26:34 PM] Kelly: maybe...
[6:26:44 PM] Kelly: why ask that?
[6:26:53 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: sorry for asking
[6:27:24 PM] Kelly: no its fine
[6:27:30 PM] Kelly: it just surprised me
[6:27:39 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: can you turn it back on
[6:27:53 PM] Kelly: sure...
[6:28:09 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i mean the cam
[6:28:45 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: well can i ask this
[6:28:54 PM] Kelly: hm?
[6:29:09 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: did you finger when you got wet
... Goddamn is this fucker thirsty. For fuck's sake the thirst is real, live and in 3D IMAX for this fuckass. Do you see how instantly he wants his gratification, if ever a linear model is to be applied you can apply and glue that shit to this motherfucker. Sloppy and hasty as this shit is, what this behavior is called is grooming. Luring you into a route of conversation where he can connive, guilt and outright trick you into getting on cam and then showing him whatever he'll try to "suggest" you do for him. Your gut might be young, uninformed and untested but it still came with a starter kit. The minute you feel it gurgling-- follow it right on out the nearest exit. You are never obligated or owe any fuckface off the street or internet your time and attention.
[6:30:12 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: wait up i'm kidding you don't have to get upsey
[6:30:34 PM] Kelly: its just all these surprising questions
[6:30:40 PM] Kelly: i get flustered easy...
[6:30:47 PM] Kelly: so i dont think ill answer tat one
[6:31:01 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: whats flushered
[6:31:18 PM] Kelly: flustered*
[6:31:34 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: what do it mean
[6:31:43 PM] Kelly: it means fidgety and abit embarrassing
[6:32:11 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: oh you don't have to be embarssed
^^^ THIS SHIT RIGHT THE FUCK HERE, GODDAMN. Pfft, "wait up i'm kidding" and "oh you don't have to be embarssed" this is fucking example A, figure 1 prototype of grooming. This is the kind of shit meant to make you feel guilty for being suspicious and how dare you react accordingly to fuckery of this caliber. The "oh you don't have to be embarssed" is especially insidious because he's trying to play like he's harmless and you're safe-- fuck that shit, you ain't and won't ever be with motherfuckers like this. If they can't guilt you into being accomodating then the next tactic is to lull you into a sense of safety. Don't ever fall for it, sniff this shit and remember because you'll be catching whiffs of this in every context for the rest of your life.
[6:32:25 PM] Kelly: its a embarrassing question though
[6:33:58 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i see how you feel about me
[6:34:48 PM] Kelly: i dont mean to insult though < . <
[6:34:59 PM | Edited 6:35:07 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i feel like a creep
[6:35:38 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: thanks alot chatbox
[6:36:15 PM] Kelly: im soooo sorry! XD
[6:36:21 PM] Kelly: i will straighten it out
[6:36:37 PM] Kelly: its just i thought you were another one of those creeper members
[6:36:54 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: just say to my face and not to chatbox full of people
[6:37:20 PM] Kelly: im sorry im sorry...
[6:39:17 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: .its.. idk anymorw.. i mean i'm hurt
Fuckboys, I swear to god. Ooh, he's hurt! He's feeling so bad...! Fuck his shit. Fuck his face, fuck his dick, fuck the horse he came riding side-saddle in. Talkin' about he's hurt, who the fuck is hurting when his ass is relentlessly thirsting for that cam time and intimate details he has no goddamn fucking business asking of folk out of the goddamn blue, left side from the void. This also is an example of making someone malleable through guilt. He SHOULD fuckin' feel bad about being labelled a creep because that is exactly what he is fucking doing. Never feel sorry for fuckshit stains.
[6:43:24 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: cause i wanted to to know that i'm not thwe onlyone that don't think its weird to be turned on by an rp
[6:43:41 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i was going to tell you that before you snitched
[6:44:01 PM] Kelly: you could have asked that instead of asking backhanded questions
[6:44:18 PM] Kelly: and dont you think theres no reason for me to know that at this time?
[6:44:44 PM] Kelly: you can be personal with some people, but not all people... so you would have to pick them out carefully
[6:45:17 PM] Kelly: i have encountered creepers, and you honestly came off to me as one... and im sorry for it that you arent
[6:45:27 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: ...
[6:45:38 PM] Kelly: but im asking you please be more careful with that kind of language on the site
[6:46:02 PM] Kelly: if you want to discuss more mature personal things i can direct you to the sites mature rp masters
W gets all the awards, blue ribbons and A+++ for how she handles her business in this snippet. Now I know some of you young bonnets feel that my method is harsh and it ain't your style so lemme point out the way in which W answered this stupid fucking worm as the absolute best. Problem is people fucking love to be obtuse, to obfuscate, to be oblivious to folk saying no so
BE FIRM. They're still fucking up around you but you wanna keep your Polite Hat on then you have to exit, cold turkey and cut the brakes. Peace out, throw up the deuces and go. Don't worry about coming off as rude to these motherfuckers because this kind of blunt invasion into your shit is rude, disrespectful and not in no way being mindful towards you. This is that case where if a motherfucker ain't showing you a kindness then you have no obligation to give them any back. Fuck that static.
[6:46:21 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: but are we cool
[6:46:29 PM] Kelly: are we?
[6:46:39 PM] Kelly: you seemed upset afterall
[6:46:51 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: .. i don't i mean
[6:47:01 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i'm fine.. its just
[6:47:19 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: .. i don't what i wannt say posted up on iwaku
[6:47:52 PM] Kelly: well as long as youre careful thats okay, and ill keep it confidential
[6:48:24 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i mean beween us
[6:48:40 PM] *** Call from demon "the dragon" bishop ***
[6:48:43 PM] Kelly: sure..
[6:49:09 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: still think i'm a creep ?
[6:49:27 PM] Kelly: only if you give me more proof
He know he guilty, sniveling little asswound. W, as saintly and compassionate as she is being in this chat log... don't ever wait for "more proof". Most folk tell you exactly who the fuck they are if you're watching and listening. His dumb ass know he's convicted and guilty of the behavior but he wanna play like he isn't doing anything
too bad and is hella fishing for sympathy. He can act sorry all he want, that shit is
not excusing the entire fuckin' fact he's doing it.
[6:55:03 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i'm not some horn dog that hangs around preying on girls and shit
... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
"[6:01:04 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: your cute
[6:01:08 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: .. got a cam
[6:02:20 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: may i see you
[6:24:37 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: how old are ypu
[6:25:31 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: can i ask somthing
[6:25:48 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: did you ever mature rp
[6:26:14 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: ever got wet from it ?
[6:27:39 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: can you turn it back on
[6:27:53 PM] Kelly: sure...
[6:28:09 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i mean the cam
[6:28:45 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: well can i ask this
[6:29:09 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: did you finger when you got wet"
That was just SOME shit before he cried wolf, this also only one chatlog. See, this is what I fuckin' mean when people will fucking show you exactly who it is they are. Fuck's sake, I couldn't even write this level of hypocrisy.
[6:58:09 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: ever heard of somthing called chronic masterbatiom
[6:58:29 PM] Kelly: yes i have
[6:59:12 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: i kinda suffer from it
[7:00:31 PM] Kelly: oh?
[7:00:55 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: yea..
[7:01:05 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: it don'y affect much
[7:01:24 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: .. i just well you got me at a bad time
[7:01:58 PM] demon "the dragon" bishop: can you open cam..
.... My fat, white glutinous rice-eatin' ass, talking about "chronic masterbation". Fucking hell, you know the U.S. Sex Education curriculum ain't shit with little, stupid-ass fuckboys walking about claiming "chronic masterbation" as not only a legit illness but as an excuse for their equally stupid-ass fuckboy attitude.
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Now, Zidlijan, I ain't trying to put you on blast but this shit right here:
Some men give us other men a bad name and this is the reason.
Fuck this complicit, gold star hunting, pat-on-the-back seeking behavior. Trying to differentiate yourself from these "other, bad men" isn't helping jackshit but your own ego's well-being. Instead of calling out these random fuckfaces on the street who are harassing and catcalling women it's motherfuckers like these crying all these ugly tears about how you're not like that or "not all men are like that". All that shit is just some façade-ass shenanigans, trying to remove yourself from examining your role and all the ways you're being complacent in situations like that which fucking allows that kind behavior to go unabated,
unchallenged and
unchanged.
^^^EDIT^^^: Now that I've sat and thought on it (and gotten through midterms), something was missing in the original way I phrased the above paragraph.
Plain-ass talk: it is not doing any level of shit worth to note by stating how horrible it is that "there are men like that out there" and how atrocious this behavior is. We know this. We've
been knowing this. Worse yet, we've
been living with this shit. For other men to harp on what a travesty it is that "there are other men" out is analogous as a motherfucker to sayin' water is wet and the sky is located in the up direction. When men just say this shit without further comment it's tacking on another spindle to a wheel that already has 15 of them. Yeah, bruh, it is horrible that "there are men like this"-- welcome to the conversation and our lives. The real irritating part is that most of the time this shit is uttered as a way to lead in to the fact that
they're not like that, that
they'll never be like that or that they
were like that but now
they're not.
...
Like, bully & hurrah for you kid, you possess the minimum sense of decency. grats. gg. Now while they're jerking off over what not-assholes they are, these actual assholes are still running around mouthing off and touching shit that ain't theirs to touch and when we holler back about it, rant about it, call motherfuckers out on it... that's when I hear that "not all [men] are like that" usually right after we're called "too sensitive" and "humorless" and if that asshole is himself particularly sensitive about getting his nose rubbed in his own shit, a "feminazi".
So, no, bro, we don't need the reminder that "not all of us are like that", we need you to back us up and to start calling shit out on your own.
You want that gold star, pat-on-the-back so badly homie, you need to step up your game and pair your talk with a walk. Ain't no one wanting to hear yourself beat off to how not-an-asshole you are if that's all you plan on doing.
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p.s. Go get run over by the TARDIS Assmo.
