Definitely improved. Like, so much.
I was lucky enough that one of the first RP's I started actually turned out to be one of my longest-lived RP's. I mean, looking back on it, there was a
ton of luck involved for that RP to even start under the right conditions for it to be as successful as it was, so it's not like I was some genius GM right off the bat, but it still made me
feel confident in my GMing abilities. And hey, that was a two-year-long RP, so it's not like I learned
nothing in all that time. XD Sure, I was really inexperienced compared to how I am
now, but, by the end of that RP, I'd say I'd improved a great deal. And I had started another long-lived RP that managed to live for... a year and a half? Two years? I'm not so sure. The point is, these long-lived RP's were a huge confidence-booster for me and a huge sense of pride. Not only that, but they even managed to land me a position as president of my high school anime club! Yeah, the previous president -- who was graduating that year and needed a replacement -- was in both of my long-lived games, and decided that the organizational and leadership skills I displayed while GMing made me an excellent candidate! :D GMing and anime club became the two most important things in my life at that point, and both of those were cases in which I thought I was
special because I could do things that other people couldn't. I understood how to run a long-lived RP, I understood how to run an awesome anime club (the former president was a good friend of mine, but I really never thought she was a good president, and I disagreed with a lot of things she did for the club -- I wanted to right all her wrongs when I took over, and I feel that I did a very good job with it!!), and, overall, I just felt
good about my leadership abilities. GMing and being the president of the club just gave me a whole new sort of charisma about everything. I just felt like an awesome person.
...Granted, looking back on it, that period of my life was one where I was probably a bit
too confident... I had a really over-inflated ego and I was really full of myself. But!! The fact that I went a little too far into the extreme doesn't really matter in the case of this poll question, I don't think -- the point is that my self-confidence improved. And that was most certainly true!! XD
In more recent years, the pendulum has swung
harshly in the opposite direction,
but, despite the self-esteem issues I've been having lately, GMing is actually the one area where I still feel really proud of myself. I think I'm a
much better GM now than I was during my narcissistic period, and I just feel like I have
really solid RP's. Like, I don't even worry about my RP's dying anymore, because everything's just so
stable that I just... don't see it happening. @_@ I know that the only thing that would kill my RP's at this point is if every existing member suddenly vanished all at once. So long as that doesn't happen, I'll be able to keep it going, even if I have to get through some drop-outs along the way.
Let me put this in perspective for you: even with
everything I hate about myself, even with all of my horrible self-worth issues, even with how much I doubt myself about my capabilities in other areas and even my own beliefs, my GMing is something that I
don't even think to question. I
know that I'm an excellent GM. I
know that I can set up RP's in a way that ensures them for success and avoids all the rookie mistakes that I keep seeing in RP's that are practically doomed for failure. I
know that I can keep a good activity flow going and maintain the majority of the players' interests, and take care of the players that aren't interested, so that drop-outs aren't an issue and so that the whole thing chugs on indefinitely and I never have to worry about it running out of steam. And I
know that -- unless something horrible happens, like Iwaku getting wiped off the net or something -- my next RP, Altera Arcana, will last
at least six months and
probably over a year, because I've been doing this a long time, and I know what works and what doesn't, and I know how to get RP's into a stable state and maintain that stability. And, hell, with Altera Arcana specifically, I feel like I'm actually
taking risks with some of my plans for it, doing things that I previously thought would never work, because now I'm experienced enough to know how to
make it work.
So not only did RPing greatly raise my confidence back in the day -- it is now one of the only things that I am
truly confident about, and
that is most certainly a blessing at this point.