Him and Lava both, I think. I mean, she's so damn...just... boring. Well, sort of. ehh...its...I love her, other people haven't...been as enthusiastic...
Iron - There is no list and I didn't want to make one. There is a reason people are mostly listed by nation, with the spots being open genderwise. I didn't want one of those RPs that had to be same number of girls and boys so that everyone could be paired (one, because this isn't a heterosexual only RP, so malexmale and femalexfemale pairings are not only possible, they are probable). I don't mind it being even 50/50 gender wise among the Reconciled, but I didn't want to require it and I don't want to encourage it.
To my mind, the funniest part about this RP is that there is no telling what genders the characters will be (I mean, all the marriages were arranged 50+ years ago, before these people were born, and almost none of them indicate which gender has to be sent). I saw an arrangement marriage RP once which was set up so weird... It was like, all the females were elements, and the males were animals, and the pairings were announced in advance, so the available spots looked like this -
Prince Wolf + Princess Water (or something like that).
People could pick and choose who they wanted to be paired with, based on already submitted character profiles, and they make their profile fit the other character, and all the characters were assumed to be heterosexual and it was just... eww.
So I don't want you to feel like you have to make a female character. Make the character YOU WANT, for the nation you made. Don't worry about making it 50/50, or whatever. I'd like it best, actually, if it wasn't 50/50, because then it seems more natural, a reasonable result from the circumstances described within the RP. If it was exactly even, and all the pairings were Male/female (and there is still no guarantee they will be) it would be... so boring, to me.
Sides, there are non-reconciled characters in the RP, so I am sure the genders will balance out reasonably well. Right now, for example, we have...hmm... 5 females, and 7 male characters. And I have at least one female and one male (well, more like three males, but whatever) in the works. Zen is making an Heir of Atanwan, so that character might be male or female....
Don't worry about genders and making it even. Don't worry about making the matches make sense. This isn't that type of arranged marriage RP. I tried to make the character spots as open and flexible as possible, including gender, sexuality, age (within a limit), culture and government of origin, all of that. Don't worry about gender. Don't even consider it when thinking up your character. it will be better if you make the character you want, not the character you think we need.