Okay, I think what will help us all is a change of perspective. Less of the "How everyone thinks of me" approach and more of the "How I think of everyone" approach.
Too many of us are pissing each other off by putting the blinkers on and ruthlessly pursuing our own character schtick to the detriment of group dynamics. We can't all be the mysterious edgy one who hangs on the sidelines. God knows you all seem to be trying to be THAT GUY. But trust me, it's boring. Very, very boring.
So, at the risk of flogging an old horse, please think about the
ROLES that you play for each other. In Corben's case it goes like this:
- Aloysius is my wise friend who I can always count on. He has seen me through tough times and I trust him with my life.
- Eric is my mentor, the one who held the job before me. I respect his ways, even if I don't understand why he gave up the rank.
- Atlas is my science guy. He snaps like a twig, but the boy just blew a dragon's head off. The kid's alright.
- Malwin and Leonardo are feuding egos who I have to balance against each other. I think each of them is arrogant and dangerous in their own way.
- Arkavenn is a drunkard and always late. I resent that in him, but cannot deny that he packs a punch. I'm willing to stand up for him, because I know I need him
- Derek is impulsive at best and ill-tempered at worst. He has the strength to lead in my place, but not the people skills. I don't think he's ready yet.
- Erilyn unsettles me. I have yet to get the measure of her. I do not know if she will be a burden to us, and I do not have time to train her.
- Riktor reminds me of the heritage I serve. He speaks of the old ways. I listen to him like a storyteller and respect the care he gives to the FateGuard chapel.
- Ferrick is another unknown. He spends too much time alone - does not mix with the others. I must find out what troubles him.
- I do not understand Alexander. He is a man who knows he is fated for martyrdom. I do not understand how he can live like that.
- Elayna's heart is in the right place, but I cannot help but question why she chooses this life. She seems better suited to the court.
- I know Alyss will fight well, but the whispers are getting to me. The people are right... she cannot be trusted. I will not turn my back on that girl.
- Likewise, the twins are expert and dependable, but they tarnish our image. How can we get the people to believe in us when we have masked freaks in our midst?
- Tahan? Get the fuck out of my unit!
Think about how the group works, not about how everyone "puts up with your shit".
We're the only humans in a desolate wilderness beseiged by nightly horrors. We're supposed to have a bond.