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Sirona
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What have you done that you look back on now and think "Wow, I did a good job!"?
What is a challenge that you went through that has made you grow into a better person because you survived it?
What is something small that you do or have done that you think isn't a big deal, but it made or makes you happy?
What have you done that you're proud of?
For the longest time growing up, I wouldn't really talk to people outside of my family. I would always think before speaking, and get caught up in thinking about all the ways things could go wrong if I said the wrong thing. A part of me thought it was better to just suffer in silence. It really made me feel isolated, and sometimes I'd go several days without really talking to anybody.
Now, I'm pretty introverted and there isn't anything wrong with being quiet, listening, or being reserved. The issue was that when I wanted to interact with people I couldn't bring myself to do it. When I did, I'd get stuck thinking about how the conversations went all day.
It took a long time and a lot of slow progress to get to a point where I was a lot more comfortable in social situations. Looking back I'm amazed at how much I've changed for the better. A few months ago, I was asked to record a video of myself giving a talk, which was to be played at a conference. I got very anxious, but recorded the video and sent it off. Always my worst critic, I thought it was very mediocre work, but at least I had done it.
After the conference I found out that my talk was shown right at the very end, and it was met with applause from the entire room. It was a hit and the person who asked me to film it relayed everyone's compliments. Talk about a great feeling!
another thing i'm really proud of is finding a diner in my city that has great food and is also super cheap. when i brought my friends we got the best french onion soup we'd ever had. knowing that they liked it makes me so happy :) :)[/hr]
What is a challenge that you went through that has made you grow into a better person because you survived it?
What is something small that you do or have done that you think isn't a big deal, but it made or makes you happy?
What have you done that you're proud of?
For the longest time growing up, I wouldn't really talk to people outside of my family. I would always think before speaking, and get caught up in thinking about all the ways things could go wrong if I said the wrong thing. A part of me thought it was better to just suffer in silence. It really made me feel isolated, and sometimes I'd go several days without really talking to anybody.
Now, I'm pretty introverted and there isn't anything wrong with being quiet, listening, or being reserved. The issue was that when I wanted to interact with people I couldn't bring myself to do it. When I did, I'd get stuck thinking about how the conversations went all day.
It took a long time and a lot of slow progress to get to a point where I was a lot more comfortable in social situations. Looking back I'm amazed at how much I've changed for the better. A few months ago, I was asked to record a video of myself giving a talk, which was to be played at a conference. I got very anxious, but recorded the video and sent it off. Always my worst critic, I thought it was very mediocre work, but at least I had done it.
After the conference I found out that my talk was shown right at the very end, and it was met with applause from the entire room. It was a hit and the person who asked me to film it relayed everyone's compliments. Talk about a great feeling!
another thing i'm really proud of is finding a diner in my city that has great food and is also super cheap. when i brought my friends we got the best french onion soup we'd ever had. knowing that they liked it makes me so happy :) :)[/hr]