So, my ex and I decided to call off our relationship because of distance and timing and money and what not. It wasnt some bad break up, we both just thought it would be better for us to just not be together than hurt because of distance. Well, today she just told me rhat she'll be coming in June for a few days for some leadership conference thing. The kicker? It's literally 20 minutes away by car. I don't believe in god, or really fate or anything like that for that matter, but if I did believe in him, I bet he's just fucking laughing up there. Life is just great you guys. Totally fucking great. I suggested lunch or dinner or something, just so we could actually see each other in person. Is that a good idea? Should I just forget about it? At least to me, she hasn't given any indication of wanting to be back together, and if she does want to, she's not saying anything, so I'm not sure asking for her back is a good idea. Can't believe I'm actually opening up and asking for advice, but yeah. Anything will help I guess.