Okay so I just joined and I cant access any of the Redstar, Bluestar stuff, I am 18, I went into my profile and set the setting to Redstar (18+) and it's not working? I see all my friends having these little red hearts next to their profile names and I'm super confused as to what the limits are for newbies, and how to reach those goals or whatever so I have the unrestricted privileges?