Haha, welcome to Iwaku Missy :D Nice to meet you! I hope you come to love it here as much as I do! Here's a Getting started thread to help you, well...get started! And if you need any assistance at all, don't be scared to ask!
I like to plan and throw out ideas, but I also like my ideas to be cultivated with the assistance of my partner and hear plans from them. I'd like to be on equal standing so that we switch out from time to time on who's passive and who's aggressive. If my partner is too passive, then I am dominantly aggressive.