I dunno just how to explain it, other than saying the mood of my relationship lately has been pretty damp and kinda swings all over the place. One minute we're talking on the phone and giggling like the lovesick teens I think we are, but the next we're both mad at the dumbest things (be it each other or something else) and really seem to take it out on each other to some extent or another. It hurts, it's unpredictable, and the dark moods are starting to come about more often than the happy ones. We can't even snuggle it out either, since we live with one state right in between us and no way to get to the other one :( So I guess what I'm asking is if anyone has any idea how to break this cycle before it gets any worse? We've agreed we don't want to break up or take a break though, so if there are other potential ways to help this other than those things, that's what I'd like to hear. Of course, if you really believe those are the only options, I will listen to you on that as well. After all, it would be silly for me to listen to only the things that I want to read/hear. That wouldn't help a damn thing.