Manna Beast
I don't trust trees. They're shady.
Original poster
5 STAR GREMLIN
STAFF MEMBER
DONATING MEMBER
MYTHICAL MEMBER
- Invitation Status
- Not accepting invites at this time
- Posting Speed
- Speed of Light
- Multiple posts per day
- 1-3 posts per day
- One post per day
- Multiple posts per week
- 1-3 posts per week
- One post per week
- Slow As Molasses
- Online Availability
- All day, every day
- Writing Levels
- Intermediate
- Adept
- Advanced
- Preferred Character Gender
- Male
- Female
- Primarily Prefer Male
- Genres
- -Fantasy with means of magic and sword based feelings, i do prefer a bit of romance in stories
-Modern with again a fantasy feel
-Cut in anything with a bit of Romance and I can give it a try.
In the midst of me losing my damn mind for my work's busy season, I was talking to a friend of mine who also rp's as a hobby. We were shooting the wind when she asked me how clingy or distant am I with rp partners. And it got me thinking; honestly? I can be very distant when I am just getting to know someone. Which obviously makes it look like I am not interested or even open to conversation! Which I am actually open too, I just get overwhelmed with lots of communication when its new and stuff.
Though I am absolutely a person who detests a clingy person IRL or online. Typically I am happy to chat but if there is a sense of neediness or "Pay attention to only meeee." Bumps/asks for posts, or pings me excessively, I nope out very quickly. I understand excitement but if there is a creepy value to that clinginess, then I will cut the rp short. I love ppl being excited, but I don't enjoy being clung too like our rp is the only one that matters and I should only pay attention to it. I get 100% hyper focuses on some rps and put others in a slow chill vibe but not forgotten. Even getting poked once, will irritate me. I always tell people Real Life First, so if Im being poked even a little, it feels disrespectful. Sometimes I'm chilling out, sometimes I have a tired brain and sometimes i'm just slow. But I do not forget about the rps!
**Edit** I should add in, with people I am comfy around, I will encourage that conversation, fun and OOC chatter, if not friendship chatter! BUT I don't encourage just anyone in my DM's. If we do not have a relationship, then expect me to be blunt, verbal and clear about my boundaries.
All this got me thinking, how clingy or distant are you truly?
Though I am absolutely a person who detests a clingy person IRL or online. Typically I am happy to chat but if there is a sense of neediness or "Pay attention to only meeee." Bumps/asks for posts, or pings me excessively, I nope out very quickly. I understand excitement but if there is a creepy value to that clinginess, then I will cut the rp short. I love ppl being excited, but I don't enjoy being clung too like our rp is the only one that matters and I should only pay attention to it. I get 100% hyper focuses on some rps and put others in a slow chill vibe but not forgotten. Even getting poked once, will irritate me. I always tell people Real Life First, so if Im being poked even a little, it feels disrespectful. Sometimes I'm chilling out, sometimes I have a tired brain and sometimes i'm just slow. But I do not forget about the rps!
**Edit** I should add in, with people I am comfy around, I will encourage that conversation, fun and OOC chatter, if not friendship chatter! BUT I don't encourage just anyone in my DM's. If we do not have a relationship, then expect me to be blunt, verbal and clear about my boundaries.
All this got me thinking, how clingy or distant are you truly?
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