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(I was going to quote each post and reply individually, but they all seemed to fit together well enough that one general response seemed to work better, since I'd be repeating a lot of points otherwise).
For the sake of clarity, let's replace "Racial Jokes" with "Offensive Jokes" or "Dark Humor" cause the same principle honestly applies to any kind of such humor may it be about race, disorders, weight, gender, orientation, religion etc.
I will admit it can be an issue when a Joke = Expectations. I mean you can joke about real things, but jokes are not always honest but are often exaggerated or made up. If someone is confusing the dark humor being made with reality that's honestly an issue with the individual in question and their perspective/outlook on reality, not the joke itself or the stereotypes involved. Plus said person should be getting a better understanding of the people/community the joke is about if they are actually walking away expecting it out of said group.
For example, I'm part of a community where jokes such as a picture of bloodied knives with the captions "We can cure Autism" is common, but no one goes around actually thinking that's how autism should be addressed, or have I been offended (or had anyone harass me) due to being autistic myself. Or jokes such as "Why are women complaining about being oppressed? They're out of the kitchen!" are common, but no one actually treats men or women differently there and it's very often the women making and taking part in such jokes. Though granted, those are specific communities where it is an appropriate location for such jokes to be made. Where it might not be appropriate at work, you have a job to do and need to look professional. Or say as a Kids helpline where part of what may have hurt the kid were people who legitimately harmed them over being a woman, or autistic or anything else.
Everyone does have an emotional breaking point granted, but most people don't have the breaking point be over jokes/humor. But about more serious concerns such as "Can't pay the bills", "Parents don't want anything to with me", "Someone is hurting my partner and/or kids" etc. Not being hurt/offended by jokes isn't a lack of an emotional breaking point, it simply means you don't let your breaking point be tied to jokes.
As for the freedom of speech? Granted it probably wasn't the intention when passed as a law, and it's muddied. But that criticism can be made any time that someone mentions freedom of speech. Though your point was made, I'll refrain from that argument in the future when arguing stuff as to why I don't think dark humor should be censored, or people should have a right to ban certain kinds of humor.
In the end? I think people are fully in their rights to call out or criticize dark humor, or call a joke stupid, ignorant etc. I'd be a hypocrite if I was saying "Jokes can be made about anything, but Criticisms/Complaints should be limited". My concern/issue is not with people who dislike or criticize such humor but with those who actively seek to censor/stop said humor because they disagree with it. And if I caught someone censoring criticisms I'd be arguing against that as well.
Hell it normally bought them a ton of sympathy points. I mean my school wasn't perfect, it was still full of bullies and those looking to dehumanize one another for popularity points, but it was never used against those in a special needs class, but rather for those who were in the normal classes and just seemed 'odd', 'weird' or 'a nerd'.
I myself do tend to live in a very safe, peaceful and relaxed area though. We have the population size to legally count as a city, but we are seen as a town simply because of the environment, how people live etc. Which might play a big role in the sympathy to special needs where I live, and why I've seen a lack of things such as violent children whose parents are quick to defend them.
Granted though, the sympathy I mentioned is strictly if you're put in a special needs class over it. If it's known you have special needs, but you're still in a normal class then people will still make fun of you for it.
For the sake of clarity, let's replace "Racial Jokes" with "Offensive Jokes" or "Dark Humor" cause the same principle honestly applies to any kind of such humor may it be about race, disorders, weight, gender, orientation, religion etc.
I will admit it can be an issue when a Joke = Expectations. I mean you can joke about real things, but jokes are not always honest but are often exaggerated or made up. If someone is confusing the dark humor being made with reality that's honestly an issue with the individual in question and their perspective/outlook on reality, not the joke itself or the stereotypes involved. Plus said person should be getting a better understanding of the people/community the joke is about if they are actually walking away expecting it out of said group.
For example, I'm part of a community where jokes such as a picture of bloodied knives with the captions "We can cure Autism" is common, but no one goes around actually thinking that's how autism should be addressed, or have I been offended (or had anyone harass me) due to being autistic myself. Or jokes such as "Why are women complaining about being oppressed? They're out of the kitchen!" are common, but no one actually treats men or women differently there and it's very often the women making and taking part in such jokes. Though granted, those are specific communities where it is an appropriate location for such jokes to be made. Where it might not be appropriate at work, you have a job to do and need to look professional. Or say as a Kids helpline where part of what may have hurt the kid were people who legitimately harmed them over being a woman, or autistic or anything else.
Everyone does have an emotional breaking point granted, but most people don't have the breaking point be over jokes/humor. But about more serious concerns such as "Can't pay the bills", "Parents don't want anything to with me", "Someone is hurting my partner and/or kids" etc. Not being hurt/offended by jokes isn't a lack of an emotional breaking point, it simply means you don't let your breaking point be tied to jokes.
As for the freedom of speech? Granted it probably wasn't the intention when passed as a law, and it's muddied. But that criticism can be made any time that someone mentions freedom of speech. Though your point was made, I'll refrain from that argument in the future when arguing stuff as to why I don't think dark humor should be censored, or people should have a right to ban certain kinds of humor.
In the end? I think people are fully in their rights to call out or criticize dark humor, or call a joke stupid, ignorant etc. I'd be a hypocrite if I was saying "Jokes can be made about anything, but Criticisms/Complaints should be limited". My concern/issue is not with people who dislike or criticize such humor but with those who actively seek to censor/stop said humor because they disagree with it. And if I caught someone censoring criticisms I'd be arguing against that as well.
From my school experience I found that the children were mostly separated because of staff concerns, not because of students. Outside of a few assholes students tended to be very accepting/caring to those in a special needs class.Lol you were lucky. I started out volunteering with the school staff during gym middle school since kids with mental and physical disabilities. They were good kids but it was sad that I was made fun of for actually hanging out around them. We shared the Gym with them and try having 4 class worth of students on one half of a basketball course. All because they didn't want to anywhere near the other kids :( But I enjoyed the three years of helping them out. But as for the kids I've unhappily dealt with it may be because of where I live. It's not that great of a place to live, schools are terrible, unemployment is still pretty high and so is homelessness. So environment may be a factor.
Hell it normally bought them a ton of sympathy points. I mean my school wasn't perfect, it was still full of bullies and those looking to dehumanize one another for popularity points, but it was never used against those in a special needs class, but rather for those who were in the normal classes and just seemed 'odd', 'weird' or 'a nerd'.
I myself do tend to live in a very safe, peaceful and relaxed area though. We have the population size to legally count as a city, but we are seen as a town simply because of the environment, how people live etc. Which might play a big role in the sympathy to special needs where I live, and why I've seen a lack of things such as violent children whose parents are quick to defend them.
Granted though, the sympathy I mentioned is strictly if you're put in a special needs class over it. If it's known you have special needs, but you're still in a normal class then people will still make fun of you for it.