I feel this on a spiritual level :(
I put my favourite as threads where I can discuss my interests, but I really really enjoy a calm, educational discussion a lot more. The trouble is I get tense when I even SEE a serious topic thread because I jsut know it's going to devolve into shitposting and people getting irritated at each other :(
I identify so hard with the difficulty in letting things lie when you know they're stupid or wrong, but honestly it's frustrating when a disagrement spoils a good discussion, yanno?