Short Version?
Should women be allowed in combat? Yes. If they can pass the physical requirements, they should be allowed to serve.
Do I want women in combat? No. Because war in general horrifies me and I don't want it glorified in any way, shape, or form.
Long Version?
There is no reasonably legal way one can justify blocking women if they meet the physical requirements to serve in the military. (Which, aside from some pretty extremely stringent cases in special ops groups, they can.) They're individual people first, and should always be allowed to make their own choices with their lives. Even if that choice is to sacrifice their lives on the front line so I can sleep well at night, safe and sound. It doesn't matter how I feel about it. This isn't the medieval era, people don't bash each other over the head with clubs. A 30-60 pound difference doesn't decide a fight between two people using guns. If you think it does, I'm sorry, but you're a moron. Go look up how guns work. "But the equipment!" Look up above this paragraph. "If they can pass the physical requirements" includes their equipment. Historically speaking: The further technology advances, the less differences in biological makeup matter. When man first started fighting each other as cave men, the bigger guy always won. This effect started to get mitigated (though not removed) progressively through inventions like martial arts, swords, spears, shields, armour, et cetera. Really, think about it. A woman doesn't need to have 400 pounds of lifting strength to drive a tank. Just the training and the willpower, and being
strong enough to lug about the equipment necessary to do her job.
So, why am I uncomfortable with the idea of women in combat?
Because I don't like war in general. I'm uncomfortable with
anyone being marched off to kill or be killed. Even patriots don't generally obsess over killing, they sign up to
die for their country. They know the price they pay and it's themselves. There were points in World War 1 & World War 2 where, no exaggeration, thousands were dying
daily. Imagine taking an entire town off the map every day. Just erase it off the map.
That used to happen. (Especially with British town battalions in The Great War, but that's off topic.)
I don't want to see a surge of women signing up to the military because they feel some sort of fucked up equality-driven obligation to do so. I don't want to see a surge of
any group of people signing up to the military because they feel some begrudging obligation to balance the stats books. You know what those stats books are for? To track how many military resources are lost. Such as your life. Such as the lives of others around you.
If you (man or woman) decide you want to sign up for the military knowing that you are essentially signing away your life to be used as a military resource for your country? Knowing that you will be marched into battles and dangerous situations--in which, any can end your life--and you are willing to pay this cost so I can live free of the fear of being conquered by another group of people? Well, firstly, I respect you. Profoundly. I don't care about your sex, I care about the price you're paying so people like me can continue to bemoan war. Secondly, I will fight tooth and nail as a citizen to ensure my government does not pay for territorial acquisitions or
oil resources in your blood. Thirdly, thanks.
No, really, I can't thank you enough if you've served or plan on serving. You're doing a great service.
Just... Man or woman? I'm not comfortable with the idea of casually throwing you into warfare. I'm not comfortable with glorifying joining the military in any way, shape, or form, no matter how well intentioned. It is a grave and severe service by which no illusions of grandeur should be draped upon it.
So...
Legalize female service in the military, but don't encourage it. Let individual people decide for themselves if they wish to join, don't try to guilt complex people into "balancing the representation books" here. In other cases, it's funny. In this case, it's fucking deadly, and the only people who should sign up are the ones who think of war before they think of their sex.
Oh, and the draft in the United States, should pull from both sexes. If men and women are to be equal in rights, they should be equal in responsibilities too. Just saying.
EDIT
@Cpt Toellner See? This is exactly what I'm afraid of. People shoving inexperienced women into important combat roles where they are
not fucking ready and potentially getting themselves and their squad killed as a result, just to balance some "gender representation" textbook. This. This right here. This is what I'm afraid of. Not women serving voluntarily, but women serving because
some bureaucratic fucktard wants to appeal to a voting demographic.