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That's exactly it! They know it's a problem, they talk about how it needs to stop, but no one is making any damn suggestions on how to stop it. It's like having all the ingredients for a recipe, knowing the recipe, but waiting for the ingredients to throw themselves together and put itself in the oven. Kids are killing themselves over this issue! If not by suicide, they're turning to drugs and other unhealthy habits as a way to cope when they don't have people to help them through it.I think one event that really drives this issue home is something that happened in one of my classes a year ago.
Note: I'm in Early Childhood Education, so this was a class of people meant to be educating and looking after children.
My teacher had started a discussion with the class about cyber-bullying.
And it very quickly turned into a bunch of them getting teary eyed, saying that people today are so rude, and hating that such a thing exists.
But that's all they were doing, complaining about it.
The second I raised my hand and suggested tactics to address it the respond was quite literally "Well that's just tactics. We're not talking about that".
Really? Really!?
You people are meant to be trained on working with children, where bullying will become an issue!
But instead of addressing ways on how to stop it you'd rather just sit around and cry about it!?
Are you fucking kidding me!?
What annoys me about it most is what @Halo says is true. The other kids parents have the same rights as I do to defend their kid, and no parent wants to admit that their child is a brat (At least not to other people. Deep down we all know when we have a bad seed, but we do what we can to fix the problems without letting other people know.) Although I can't say that's true for all parents. If I knew my kids were bullying, and there have been times when I've caught them saying mean things to someone that I've forced them to go back and apologize for, I feel that it's my job as their parent to do what I can to put a stop to the problem. Some parents don't acknowledge that it is a problem. They either go with the logic 'Kids will be kids' or make up some excuse for their kids' bad behavior. It all comes down to the parents, and most parents don't want to be bothered by it unless it affects them in some way.