I was roleplaying for a few years before I finally did sex scenes in a roleplay. O__O I was always too embarrassed to and didn't actually know what I was doing when it came to sex stuff and didn't want to write it and make it obvious I had NO clue. >> So it wasn't after until I had real sex that I finally tried writing sex scenes in my roleplays.
There wasn't anything special about it, it was pretty much just like every other roleplay except had a sex scene in it. XD And since I HAD sex before, I was confident in what I was writing. My partner was a great writer too, and we had some thought out characters and a sweetass plot going on. So when it came to the sex scene itself, it made a really awesome impact. O___O It was sexy and emotional. Very cool.