This is something that has bugged me for YEARRRRRRRRS! And something I can't even begin to understand. How people view their relationships and roleplays as a life or death situation. You are forever to roleplay romance with your spouse only and if someone else is messing with your character, it's game on or well...war. When I was a moderator on another site I had gotten an email from one user who "jumped on" her boyfriend's account and demanded that I delete his account because he was "cheating" on her by roleplaying romance with another user and therefore cheating on her. Of course I explained that I could not and would not do such a silly thing and she should really get over it like a good mod yet it bugged the hell out of me. In my personal opinion, I feel it is very childish and insecure as well as a stunt in growth for both writers who will never get to experience other players. I don't feel it is cheating...it's writing. I don't think it will lead to a whole new secret romance (and on the rare occasion that it does, who needs him/her?) or some secret family with two babies on the way, ya know? I don't know it just...bugs me. Thoughts?