This post says people are not supposed to be flirting on the site, trying to get girlfriends/boyfriends (real life OR online), cyber sexing, hooking up, booty calls, and other forms of potential non writing/storytelling based roleplaying.
ESPECIALLY when they are 14 on a site with people's ages ranging all the way up to 35+. You are going to get in to a bad situation or put OTHER people in to a bad situation by being careless.
So if you want to CHAT with people, just chatting, go to the cbox, talk in general, visitor messages and Private messages if you want. But it's not a good idea to advertise yourself out to guys specifically like you're trying to get a hook up. That's not safe for you, and not safe for the adults in the community.