C
Crafter
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This is a serious topic, and one that is bothering me.
I was kind of afraid about coming forward on this. Actually I've tried writing it several times, and I kept chickening out.
I do want to be clear that this problem has never yet, occurred on this site.
Most of my RP Topics start off with stuff like F4A, or mention my gender in them. For most this is not a problem.
However, every so often I meet a guy, and it's always a guy. Who starts off jokingly asking me for pictures, and then it escalates into; "Well how can I be sure you're really a girl? Just send me a pic so I know."
Like there's this idea that I "HAVE" to prove I'm who I say am to them. Even when I make it clear that I'm not comfortable giving out my picture, and it's not like I'm trying to get money or anything, these are just RP partners. If I was on a dating site, I would totally understand a guy being weary of getting catfished. That would make sense. It's just I shouldn't start an RP, and in the first five messages have a male partner start demanding I hand over pictures of myself.
They always whine about it too, like I'm the evil one for not showing them a picture of myself.
Now most guys I RP with, don't do this. It's probably around 3 out of every 10 or so.
I'm not judging all guys, as I said it's a small percentage, and most guys I RP with, are great to me. It's just that small percent makes me feel weird.
Sorry for the rant, I just needed to get that out. It's been pent up.
I was kind of afraid about coming forward on this. Actually I've tried writing it several times, and I kept chickening out.
I do want to be clear that this problem has never yet, occurred on this site.
Most of my RP Topics start off with stuff like F4A, or mention my gender in them. For most this is not a problem.
However, every so often I meet a guy, and it's always a guy. Who starts off jokingly asking me for pictures, and then it escalates into; "Well how can I be sure you're really a girl? Just send me a pic so I know."
Like there's this idea that I "HAVE" to prove I'm who I say am to them. Even when I make it clear that I'm not comfortable giving out my picture, and it's not like I'm trying to get money or anything, these are just RP partners. If I was on a dating site, I would totally understand a guy being weary of getting catfished. That would make sense. It's just I shouldn't start an RP, and in the first five messages have a male partner start demanding I hand over pictures of myself.
They always whine about it too, like I'm the evil one for not showing them a picture of myself.
Now most guys I RP with, don't do this. It's probably around 3 out of every 10 or so.
I'm not judging all guys, as I said it's a small percentage, and most guys I RP with, are great to me. It's just that small percent makes me feel weird.
Sorry for the rant, I just needed to get that out. It's been pent up.