So, unsurprisingly my parents are divorced, and have been for several years. For a good part before and after the actual signing my dad had a come and go attitude. My sisters and I grew up used to him being gone for up to months at a time, especially if he and mom had a bad fight. Now he wants to be all buddy buddy again. My sisters (one older one younger ) have gone along with this mostly but I'm being a hold out. I feel better keeping him at a distance, after all that time he kept his. However, sometimes I get pressure from him and my sisters to spend more time with him. Right now I see him at least once a month. I'm just wondering if anyone else would back me up on this, or how you'd deal with it.