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Vay

The Empress
BENEFACTOR
Genders You Prefer Playing
Male, Female
Playing Style- Passive or Aggressive
Mostly active but I don't mind taking a back seat.
Favorite Genres
Mostly Fantasy and Sci-fi, though I’ll do anything if the plot is good.
Genre You DON'T Like
See above.
#1
Just got a call from an ex, she was pregnant when we broke up, though I'm sure the baby was not mine. She called me to say it had died inside her and she needed someone to talk to. I said what I needed to comfort her but deep down I couldn't give a flying fuck. It was not the "she deserves it because i hate her" scenario, I just didn't care.

Am I a bad person?
 
T

Tain

Guest
#2
I would say no. You comforted her, right? Even when everything in you didn't actually care, you did what you could to help her out. That doesn't fall into my spectrum of "bad."
 

Childish Grumpino

LET'S DO METH AND CHOP UP OUR NEIGHBOURS  ヲ 詠よ意イめフ
SECURITY DEPARTMENT
DONATING MEMBER
Roleplay Invitations
Not Taking RP Invites at this Time
#3
'Good', 'evil' and 'bad' are all purely objective, mate. The only person who can answer that question is yourself.

From where I stand, I'd agree with Tain. You did what you could to comfort her, putting personal feelings aside.
 

Sakura

Official Iwaku Little Sister
Roleplay Invitations
Group Roleplays, One on One Roleplays
Posting Speed
One Post a Day, A Few Posts a Week, One Post a Week
My Usual Online Time
After 5PM EST weekdays
Writing Levels
Elementary, Intermediate, Adept, Advanced
Genders You Prefer Playing
Female, Primarily Prefer Female
Playing Style- Passive or Aggressive
Instinctively passive unless the story needs a push. I adapt as needed.
Favorite Genres
SciFi, Fantasy, Modern, Twist Genres.
Genre You DON'T Like
Mature, Horror (with rare exceptions)
#4
If you bothered to call her, I don't think you're bad at all :3
And the baby isn't yours, so you did what you could do~
 
Genders You Prefer Playing
Male
Playing Style- Passive or Aggressive
Moderate to aggressive.
Favorite Genres
Fantasy, Horror and Sci-fi. I'll try basically anything though. I also love strange and unusual RP genre concepts. Different is good!
Genre You DON'T Like
I'll try just about anything. I'm not overly into RPs where the prime focus is romance. I'm not too hyped on fan based anime rp either.
#5
I don't think it makes you bad, man. You were nice enough to listen at least, It's not your responsibility to care about your ex's issues, Especially when it involves another mans kid IMO.

If It helps any, I probably wouldn't even (actually, I KNOW I wouldn't) take the time to talk my ex if the same situation applied to me.
 
W

Warmaster Death

Guest
#6
you did your duty vay.
be sound in that knowledge.
 

Vay

The Empress
BENEFACTOR
Genders You Prefer Playing
Male, Female
Playing Style- Passive or Aggressive
Mostly active but I don't mind taking a back seat.
Favorite Genres
Mostly Fantasy and Sci-fi, though I’ll do anything if the plot is good.
Genre You DON'T Like
See above.
#7
Thanks guys, read your replies and thought on it. All is back to normal.