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- Looking for partners
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- Multiple posts per day
- 1-3 posts per day
- One post per day
- Multiple posts per week
- 1-3 posts per week
- One post per week
- Slow As Molasses
- Online Availability
- I'm usually on at points through out the day. Some days I'm not due to various reasons, but I try to give my partners warning if I'm going to be away for more than a day or two
- Writing Levels
- Intermediate
- Adept
- Advanced
- Adaptable
- Preferred Character Gender
- Male
- Female
- Primarily Prefer Male
- Primarily Nonbinary
- Genres
- Slice of life, high fantasy, modern fantasy, urban fantasy ...anything fantasy really. Dark comedy, supernatural, psychological - anything with dark overtones and miserable, dysfunctional characters. Love me some Hurt/Comfort.
So I'm not sure where this goes. Its not a rant exactly, so I'm not putting it in the Ranting thread but it's not happy either, so I'm putting it here.
Here goes. *deep breath*
So my brother - very close friend technically, since were not related - got accepted into a couple colleges. Yay!! :D This is a good thing, I'm very happy and excited for him. I'm not going to say "Don't go" because that's not fair, but there all between a couple hours to days away from where we live and we're going to have to Skype to stay in touch. When he told me he was gong to be leaving, I burst into hysterical tears and cried for hours.
Here's the thing: I've had some serious issues in the past and pretty much right from the day we met that boy has been my rock and helped me through it; slowly bringing me out of my shell and helping me with my painfully low self-esteem and self-confidence. If it wasn't for him and another friend of ours (although he's staying put thank goodness) I wouldn't be here.
But my older brother, my twin, my rock, is leaving me behind and moving to another city. This might not be so bad if I didn't have all these abandonment issues due to my childhood, but my brother is leaving. He's going away and I'm so so terrified that he's going to find someone better than me and replace me and he's not going to want me as his sister anymore. Even though I've told myself it's not going to happen, that he wouldn't do that because he needs me as much as I need him, the fear is still there in the back of my mind telling me he will because that's what everyone else did. So I spent the early hours of the morning sobbing and almost having a panic attack all while telling myself that he would never ever do that to me.
I'm very much all over the place about this. On the one hand I'm happy for him, on the other I don't want him to go.
(...I feel better now)
Here goes. *deep breath*
So my brother - very close friend technically, since were not related - got accepted into a couple colleges. Yay!! :D This is a good thing, I'm very happy and excited for him. I'm not going to say "Don't go" because that's not fair, but there all between a couple hours to days away from where we live and we're going to have to Skype to stay in touch. When he told me he was gong to be leaving, I burst into hysterical tears and cried for hours.
Here's the thing: I've had some serious issues in the past and pretty much right from the day we met that boy has been my rock and helped me through it; slowly bringing me out of my shell and helping me with my painfully low self-esteem and self-confidence. If it wasn't for him and another friend of ours (although he's staying put thank goodness) I wouldn't be here.
But my older brother, my twin, my rock, is leaving me behind and moving to another city. This might not be so bad if I didn't have all these abandonment issues due to my childhood, but my brother is leaving. He's going away and I'm so so terrified that he's going to find someone better than me and replace me and he's not going to want me as his sister anymore. Even though I've told myself it's not going to happen, that he wouldn't do that because he needs me as much as I need him, the fear is still there in the back of my mind telling me he will because that's what everyone else did. So I spent the early hours of the morning sobbing and almost having a panic attack all while telling myself that he would never ever do that to me.
I'm very much all over the place about this. On the one hand I'm happy for him, on the other I don't want him to go.
(...I feel better now)