Let's talk about love.

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  1. 5 Love Languages

    Friend was talking to me about this so I looked it up. I took the single quiz.

    Love Language Scores:
    0 Words of Affirmation
    9 Quality Time
    6 Receiving Gifts
    8 Acts of Service
    7 Physical Touch


    Quality Time
    In Quality Time, nothing says "I love you" like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
     
  2. 10 Words of Affirmation
    9 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    5 Acts of Service
    3 Physical Touch


    Didn't see a description o_o;
    *stares at score* .... That makes me seem selfish D: I just have confidence issues!
     
  3. MARRIED VERSION
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    6 Words of Affirmation 11 Quality Time 1 Receiving Gifts 4 Acts of Service 8 Physical Touch


    Your Love Language

    Quality Time
    In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there–with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby–makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.



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    5 Words of Affirmation 11 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 6 Acts of Service 6 Physical Touch


    Your Love Language

    Quality Time
    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
     

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    7 Words of Affirmation 9 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 5 Acts of Service 7 Physical Touch



    Quality Time
    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
     
  5. 5 Words of Affirmation
    10 Quality Time
    5 Receiving Gifts
    6 Acts of Service
    4 Physical Touch
     
  6. That shit asked me like twenty times if I liked gifts.

    I appreciate them, but jeez.

    btw

    6 Words of Affirmation
    5 Quality Time
    4 Receiving Gifts
    9 Acts of Service
    6 Physical Touch

    Acts of Service
    Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

    TL;DR I'LL NEVER LEAVE YOU AS LONG AS YOU DO THE DISHES
     

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    7 Quality Time 5 Receiving Gifts
    6 Acts of Service
    3 Physical Touch


    Words of Affirmation

    Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
     

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    [h=3]Your Love Language[/h] Quality Time
    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
     

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    7 Words of Affirmation 10 Quality Time
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    Quality Time
    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
     

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    8 Words of Affirmation 9 Quality Time 1 Receiving Gifts 8 Acts of Service 4 Physical Touch



    Quality Time
    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

    I think Physical Touch should be lower...I hate physical contact with other people. And Receiving Gifts is spot on. I always feel like I need to repay people for gifts so I don't like getting them.
     

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    8 Words of Affirmation 8 Quality Time 0 Receiving Gifts 3 Acts of Service 11 Physical Touch


    Physical Touch
    A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.


    I'm not surprised... I love touching people, not even sexually, just... touching each other is enough... I don't get physical contact nearly enough :/
     
  12. Hmm.....

    Your Scores
    7 Words of Affirmation
    6 Quality Time
    1 Receiving Gifts
    5 Acts of Service
    11 Physical Touch

    Your Love Language
    Physical Touch
    A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.
     
  13. Your Scores
    10 Words of Affirmation
    9 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    5 Acts of Service
    3 Physical Touch


    Words of Affirmation
    Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

    Yeah, sounds about right. It means a lot more to me to hear peoples' love. I don't socialize very often. And, well... People I've known for a long time rarely even talk to me, so it's that much more meaningful when someone asks me how I'm doing, or tells me they love me.
     
  14. 5 Words of Affirmation
    9 Quality Time
    3 Receiving Gifts
    11 Acts of Service
    2 Physical Touch

    Acts of Service

    Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter

    BOW DOWN IS SERVITUDE TO ME!

    Actually in all honesty, physical contact makes me shy away 99.9999999999999999999999999% of the time and works of praise/gifts make me leery. I have a hard time trusting people who are unconditionally nice to me, simple at that.
     
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    3 Words of Affirmation 10 Quality Time 3 Receiving Gifts 4 Acts of Service 10 Physical Touch



    Quality Time

    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

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    Pretty spot on, I'd say.
     
  16. Oh my gosh, I have this book. <3 <3 <3 My love language is Physical Touch... TT 3 TT <3 But I'll be sure to take the quiz to see a more descriptive version. :3 <3 It's awesome to see that others know about it, too! ^__^
     

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    6 Words of Affirmation 9 Quality Time 3 Receiving Gifts 6 Acts of Service 6 Physical Touch


    Quality Time

    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

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    Pretty fair, I'd say. -nod.-
     

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    Quality Time
    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.
     

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    7 Words of Affirmation 9 Quality Time 2 Receiving Gifts 7 Acts of Service 5 Physical Touch


    Quality Time

    In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

    Yeah, I'm not so touchy-feely a lot. But I love lots of quality time, although I like spending time watching TV or just sitting near one another on the couch.