I hate your swarthy snatch

I'm not going to pretend like I don't want to be pretty. I like wearing makeup and I definitely love cute clothes. I've been known to skip meals (sometimes two or three in a row) to lose weight and take freezing cold showers so my hair dye will stay perfect.
Honestly, my biggest advocate of "you're beautiful no matter what you look like" is my boyfriend. He doesn't give a damn if I'm wearing a miniskirt or sweat pants, if I just got out of the shower or haven't taken one in two days, if my hair is brown or red or teal. While I still allow myself most of my previous vanities (especially heels; I love my shoes) I'm not really concerned about them anymore. To me, being pretty isn't expected- it's fun. Kind of like a work of art. When I feel like creating something beautiful using my body as a canvas, I can grab some heels and a polka-dot dress, put on a little makeup and a little body glitter and be fabulous. But I can also go out in public in my daisy dukes and an old t-shirt, because my body is a body first and a canvas second, and I don't always feel artistic about going out in public.
 
I agree - there are things you do out of pressure and things you do because they make you feel good. The trouble is distinguishing one from the other because sometimes the lines blur and something is often done for both reasons. I don't generally think about societal standards/norms yet adhere to them all the same, including makeup, wearing a bra, etc. Some things make you feel good BECAUSE they fit in with society, or at least our idea of society, what is expected, or what is desired.

I also agree with positive things coming from a boyfriend - it can be a powerful boost to your self esteem and my boyfriend is the same way. I am quite sure he would find the idea of all identically colored vaginas to be horrifyingly boring and of sheep mentality. How are we to distinguish things if they all become so similar? A sexual experience in only feelings will still vary but remembering little things like differences in muscle definition, skin tone, hair style, the shape/size of breasts, shaved/natural/whatever down south, all of those little bits of our bodies, those all enhance the uniqueness of a person and therefore your interactions and memories of them.

And that's not even going into preferences; like the song "I like big butts", some do - others don't. Butts, boobs, legs, general body type.. No two people are likely to have the exact same preferences in a partner or even the same idea of what the 'ideal'/'perfect' body is.

Sidenote: I clicked on this thread out of curiosity, was thoroughly amused by the first post (I chuckled multiple times at the phrasing), and now find an interesting, although not new, discussion. Neato.
 
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Wow! this is sad... Why would someone bleach there vag of all things... unless your a porn star then i guess thats different then XD

All i can say is if its not an STD or Blue Waffle I'm fine with how its already colored... Who you are is what matters more then the color of your vajajay... geez media sucks
 
Cause guys love it when her vagoo smells like clorox.