I don't mean to bring anyone's self-esteem down or make this have a negative conotation. You can "hate" or "love" yourself, but in the end, you just deal with it, aside from those who actually DO have troubling lives dealing with low self-esteem, constant shame, suicidal thoughts, and depression, etc. but just in general, has there ever been a time where you just can't stand what's happening in your current situation that you're all like "I hate myself for doing this" or "I hate myself because I want everything to be perfect"? What about "I love myself because I made her feel better about herself" or "I love myself because others like the way I see things"? You ever come across thoughts like these?