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No one has ever died from the following:
Not being able to tell what someone's gender is.
Asking someone a question about their gender.
Getting someone's gender wrong and having to be corrected.
Having to correct someone about their own gender.
There are good reasons to have the field, and there are also good reasons to NOT have. Both are equally valid and neither actually matter in the long run. It is a five second different between checking a profile or asking a question. Convenience is the only thing that could be an issue. Everyone is going to be too busy roleplaying and having fun for that five seconds to hurt.
I must also say: If your social anxiety is SO BAD that you can't handle a simple human question, that is something YOU need to work on. Being forced to now ask people to know the answer is GOOD for you; whether you have to be the one to ask, or the one to answer. I am telling you this as a fellow person with severe social anxiety who just yesterday had a near panic attack because I was forced to talk to a stranger on the phone. @___@ For about ten minutes I thought I was going to die, but I HAD to do it.
Yes, it's awkward and it's hard, but life doesn't accomidate our social anxiety. D: We have to learn to manage it, and the best way to do that is by trying to do the things we're anxious about. Communities like Iwaku can create a safe space up to a point, after that it's all on you to handle yourself.
I actually think it's kind of awesome that this has sparked a discussion on gender identity and now people are thinking and talking about it. 8D Imagine all the great conversations peeps are gonna have with their rp partners now as they get to know each other better.
...And ya'll over thinking the ice cream thing. XD It's like art critics trying to analyze a painted red circle with some kind of deeper symbolism. It's a circle! It's literally just a circle! D:
Not being able to tell what someone's gender is.
Asking someone a question about their gender.
Getting someone's gender wrong and having to be corrected.
Having to correct someone about their own gender.
There are good reasons to have the field, and there are also good reasons to NOT have. Both are equally valid and neither actually matter in the long run. It is a five second different between checking a profile or asking a question. Convenience is the only thing that could be an issue. Everyone is going to be too busy roleplaying and having fun for that five seconds to hurt.
I must also say: If your social anxiety is SO BAD that you can't handle a simple human question, that is something YOU need to work on. Being forced to now ask people to know the answer is GOOD for you; whether you have to be the one to ask, or the one to answer. I am telling you this as a fellow person with severe social anxiety who just yesterday had a near panic attack because I was forced to talk to a stranger on the phone. @___@ For about ten minutes I thought I was going to die, but I HAD to do it.
Yes, it's awkward and it's hard, but life doesn't accomidate our social anxiety. D: We have to learn to manage it, and the best way to do that is by trying to do the things we're anxious about. Communities like Iwaku can create a safe space up to a point, after that it's all on you to handle yourself.
I actually think it's kind of awesome that this has sparked a discussion on gender identity and now people are thinking and talking about it. 8D Imagine all the great conversations peeps are gonna have with their rp partners now as they get to know each other better.
...And ya'll over thinking the ice cream thing. XD It's like art critics trying to analyze a painted red circle with some kind of deeper symbolism. It's a circle! It's literally just a circle! D: