BEING FRIEND ZONED. Some of us may have been a victim of this sort of things, and others have never experienced it. The definition, in short, is when you meet some one you potentially like and/or have feelings for, but they automatically assume that you are nothing but a "good friend" to them. The other refuses to let what could be a wonderful relationship happen by claiming that they are better off at friends. This is different than dating them before, breaking up, THEN friended. That's a natural thing. Friend zoned is the automatic classification that you will never be anymore than friends. It hurts people to have it done to them so much! It almost makes them feel like they didn't even have a chance! Some people call it heartless and other people call it careful. But what do you guys call it? Have you ever been a victim of the friend zone? How did it make you feel? Do you find yourself doing it?