I know I have been here a few days ago with a rant but I need your folks' help again. Or more like opinion, a point of view. Since about the age 14 I have been wanting a tattoo. Almost a decade later (now) I am still very excited by the idea. What's more, even my mum have become pro-tattoo which is an amazing news. However, my boyfriend is not fond of them. We have talked about the possibility of me getting a tattoo at great lengths and whilst he says that he is not going to tell me what to do with my body as it is my body, he also says he doesn't find tattoos attractive. If he had two of me in front of him one with a tattoo and the other without, he'd choose the one without. It worries me. Because if I were to get a tattoo I am afraid he'd find me less attractive. I am worried he would not love me as much anymore and that the tattoo would hinder our relationship. I know it is a silly thought, because as you can say if he truly loves me he'll learn to live with it. But I just don't want to chance it you know. He quite frankly is the best that has ever happened to me in my life so far. I even asked him if he thinks it would affect our relationship somehow and at first he said he was not sure, not until I'd get it. But today, he said it would not. I don't know. I am getting mixed messages out of him and it's confusing me. I want a tattoo so bad but I don't want it if it might hinder my relationship. But at the same time, I have been wanting this for so long that giving up on it is very upsetting. Maybe I just want him to be as excited as I am about it but that's not going to happen? Maybe I am worried that if he doesn't like it as much as I do, I am going to regret getting a tattoo later on. Bottom line is, I'd like to know your opinion whether or not I should chance getting a tattoo and see if this relationship would last through it.