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Fel of the Eternal Forest
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C'mon, everyone's got them - that list of things that on a first date make you go 'uh. No. See ya, you're fronting the bill.'
SO, my question is:
What are your deal breakers?
Inversely:
What do you consider an instant attraction?
By this, we're assuming that certain looks are a factor, but we're looking for mannerisms, likes, dislikes, ect. This is already the first date.
My Deal Breakers:
SO, my question is:
What are your deal breakers?
Inversely:
What do you consider an instant attraction?
By this, we're assuming that certain looks are a factor, but we're looking for mannerisms, likes, dislikes, ect. This is already the first date.
My Deal Breakers:
- Having more than 3 cats.
- Having tattoos, or constantly talking about said cats.
- Extreme dislike of gaming, having certain tastes is fine, hating it all is a big NO.
- Constantly chattering about things that don't really matter. Small talk is okay, but too much and you're obviously not looking for a relationship.
- Talking at any point on the date about how her ex used to do things for her. I'm not him, get over it.
- Telling me my religion is wrong, and I should repent.
- Talking about sexual experiences she's had. I want a lover, not a freak.
- Passion for music
- Cutesy fidgeting (but not a constant thing, like once in a while)
- The ability to hold up a conversation about politics or religion without expressly telling me I'm wrong in an angry manner, if you think I'm wrong, explain yourself.
- Love of sports, specifically the Mariners, Seahawks, Huskies or Grizzlies.
- Love of videogames, roleplaying (sexual is nice too, but that comes at a later date)
- Love of food. Not the holy shit, you ate everything on the buffet love of food, but an appreciation of taste love of food.