C'mon, everyone's got them - that list of things that on a first date make you go 'uh. No. See ya, you're fronting the bill.' SO, my question is: What are your deal breakers? Inversely: What do you consider an instant attraction? By this, we're assuming that certain looks are a factor, but we're looking for mannerisms, likes, dislikes, ect. This is already the first date. My Deal Breakers: Having more than 3 cats. Having tattoos, or constantly talking about said cats. Extreme dislike of gaming, having certain tastes is fine, hating it all is a big NO. Constantly chattering about things that don't really matter. Small talk is okay, but too much and you're obviously not looking for a relationship. Talking at any point on the date about how her ex used to do things for her. I'm not him, get over it. Telling me my religion is wrong, and I should repent. Talking about sexual experiences she's had. I want a lover, not a freak. My Instant Attractions: Passion for music Cutesy fidgeting (but not a constant thing, like once in a while) The ability to hold up a conversation about politics or religion without expressly telling me I'm wrong in an angry manner, if you think I'm wrong, explain yourself. Love of sports, specifically the Mariners, Seahawks, Huskies or Grizzlies. Love of videogames, roleplaying (sexual is nice too, but that comes at a later date) Love of food. Not the holy shit, you ate everything on the buffet love of food, but an appreciation of taste love of food.