I want to know if any of you have had a relationship... One where you knew you loved and were in love with the other person and then it ended in being cheated on. I want to know how you felt... How you got up again... Why aren't you bitter and hating the opposite sex (or whatever sex it was that you had dated) Does it ever get better? I found out yesterday that my husband of four years has been cheating on me. I'm currently suffocating in anguish and I need to know there's hope. I've heard that it gets better... it gets easier. But I would like to know from some of the people I rely on the most... Ones that write about stories all the time. We've all played the lover and the one who has lost it all... Help?