Sometimes your friends may get into fights or disputes and if you guise are anything like me, you'll do anything to help mend friendships. I feel like being a neutral but a mutual friend between two arguing friends can really help put away the subjectivity of arguments. I used to be the total opposite, always telling my friends "I don't want to mess with your life" while actually just keeping myself selfishly out of my friends' lives when they need support the most. But I'm still as much of a "figure it out yourselves because then it's more sincere" kind of guy and I only try to mediate when perspective really really skews a person's idea of the truth. When your friends fight do you mediate between them or do you let them try to figure it out themselves? How much mediation is too much?