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First and fore most I would like to begin this with stating that I personally have no problems with girls that are curvy and thick. Notice how I did not say fat and obese as those are severe health issues that don't need to be glorified. And I apologize if that sounds offensive, but that's science and reality for you. Nah, I am perfectly fine with bigger girls with curves and a thicker build or body type. I actually had a few friends who had these builds, and I find some girls with these body types to be very attractive.
However I'm so tired of the media and pop culture being completely one sided about body image. The "Im No Angel" lingerie, while seemingly innocent, makes me feel horrible about my body type. I'm 5'1 and only 96 pounds, and I do not look as attractive or appealing as these girls. They talk about how they are not all just one size, an obvious attack on Victoria Secret's delusional body image ideals, but in reality all commercials or any commercial saying that these are models of all sizes infuriates me because it clearly isn't. The "I'm No Angel" brand is completely made up of girls that are of one body type: full and curvy. The Victoria Secret Models are all skinnier and the same cookie cut kind of body type.
Yes I understand that curvy girls got a lot of negativity because models and celebs were not curvy back then, but honestly what they are doing now isn't any different.
Two songs this year (or last year) that greatly got on my nerves were Anaconda and All About That Base.
Yes I know these songs are supportive for fuller girls, I still find it very belittling to girls who are not of that body type. Especially when Nikki is singing "Fuck the skinny bitches in the club". I find that highly offensive. Do these people not realize that some people cannot help the fact that they are skinnier than you? For example in my case I have a high metabolism that makes it harder for me to gain weight. A common notion that I found in both songs is that guys only like girls that are curvier and fuller. Again, how is that going to reach out to girls that are skinny and frail simply because they can't help that or were born that way? It's really a downer when I listen to these songs and given the impression that I wont be loved because I don't have large curves.
Maybe I am reading to much into it, or taking it to seriously, but it really has been starting to nag at me lately....
However I'm so tired of the media and pop culture being completely one sided about body image. The "Im No Angel" lingerie, while seemingly innocent, makes me feel horrible about my body type. I'm 5'1 and only 96 pounds, and I do not look as attractive or appealing as these girls. They talk about how they are not all just one size, an obvious attack on Victoria Secret's delusional body image ideals, but in reality all commercials or any commercial saying that these are models of all sizes infuriates me because it clearly isn't. The "I'm No Angel" brand is completely made up of girls that are of one body type: full and curvy. The Victoria Secret Models are all skinnier and the same cookie cut kind of body type.
Yes I understand that curvy girls got a lot of negativity because models and celebs were not curvy back then, but honestly what they are doing now isn't any different.
Two songs this year (or last year) that greatly got on my nerves were Anaconda and All About That Base.
Yes I know these songs are supportive for fuller girls, I still find it very belittling to girls who are not of that body type. Especially when Nikki is singing "Fuck the skinny bitches in the club". I find that highly offensive. Do these people not realize that some people cannot help the fact that they are skinnier than you? For example in my case I have a high metabolism that makes it harder for me to gain weight. A common notion that I found in both songs is that guys only like girls that are curvier and fuller. Again, how is that going to reach out to girls that are skinny and frail simply because they can't help that or were born that way? It's really a downer when I listen to these songs and given the impression that I wont be loved because I don't have large curves.
Maybe I am reading to much into it, or taking it to seriously, but it really has been starting to nag at me lately....
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