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Freyja
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Is it all right to ask a person to leave a roleplay?
Story time!
I made a sign-up thread for an upcoming roleplay a while ago [as seen in my signature].
In this thread a person I was asked by a user if she could join, happy enough that a person noticed my thread, I excitedly told her yes. Then after looking at her profile I saw she was rather young and her favourite genre was Yaoi. Making group roleplays or participating in them isn't something I'm comfortable with, so I want everything to go great. Judging from her character application's past description being a one liner about how she forgot her past and a chuckle, I had this feeling a semi-mature roleplay about escaped convicts wasn't the right place for her.
So, I send her a message that maybe this roleplay is not fit for her and hope she will forgive me for putting it this bluntly. Maybe, even practise some more.
Well, she kinda really didn't forgive me. She felt MAJOR offended, called my shallow and that she didn't even want to join my roleplay.
Then I felt MAJOR anxious, because "WHAT IF SHE REPORTS ME?" , "WHAT IF SHE TELLS EVERYONE I'M A SHALLOW BITCH" OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD.
Even wanting to cancel the entire roleplay, delete my account and going to a different site.
. . . . .
All I did was change my title to 'terrible person' and cry in the corner.
ANYWAY
What do you think about asking a person to leave?
Story time!
I made a sign-up thread for an upcoming roleplay a while ago [as seen in my signature].
In this thread a person I was asked by a user if she could join, happy enough that a person noticed my thread, I excitedly told her yes. Then after looking at her profile I saw she was rather young and her favourite genre was Yaoi. Making group roleplays or participating in them isn't something I'm comfortable with, so I want everything to go great. Judging from her character application's past description being a one liner about how she forgot her past and a chuckle, I had this feeling a semi-mature roleplay about escaped convicts wasn't the right place for her.
So, I send her a message that maybe this roleplay is not fit for her and hope she will forgive me for putting it this bluntly. Maybe, even practise some more.
Well, she kinda really didn't forgive me. She felt MAJOR offended, called my shallow and that she didn't even want to join my roleplay.
Then I felt MAJOR anxious, because "WHAT IF SHE REPORTS ME?" , "WHAT IF SHE TELLS EVERYONE I'M A SHALLOW BITCH" OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD.
Even wanting to cancel the entire roleplay, delete my account and going to a different site.
. . . . .
All I did was change my title to 'terrible person' and cry in the corner.
ANYWAY
What do you think about asking a person to leave?